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Honest opinion am I overreacting....so my mother in law and sister in law didn't call my son on his birthday on Wednesday. Yet they knew it was his 2nd birthday. I was so upset and hurt because we've lived with them so I considered them like my actual family. My mom threw a surprise party for my son that night it was literally only my sister,brother,mom and aunt and one of my friends and of course us. Well my mom decided to go fb live with us singing happy birthday. My mother in law comments that why didn't we tell her anything so I tell my mom if she really cared she would've called him to say something.Even family members that I don't talk to often messaged him a video singing to him! So the next day I receive a message from my sister in law asking me why I didn't invite them. I then explained that either of them called to tell him anything. So then she was like well you could've still invited us and then I explained that it wasn't my right to do anything since it was my brother sister and mother throwing it for him! So then I told her that they were more than welcome to throw him anything if they truly wanted to needles to say they were mad because they weren't invited to my son's surprise party. And I apparently should've told them to call my son super frustrating. Well I'm so glad my family loves my son and spoils him they do everything for him so I am truly blessed. Just gets me upset because birthdays are a big deal in my family.
Planning on another baby...? So for my first time moms when do you plan on having your second child?
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@soda2010 I am , im just trying to figure out how to word it 😔
Samantha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@jazzminevaldez, then put your food down. Say they can do it the day after but the day is supposed to be about your baby
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@soda2010 she wants to do it same day, same location!!
Samantha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Same weekend or same day? Same day absolutely not that’s very upsetting. If it was maybe the same weekend like party Saturday and reunion Sunday ok that’s fine because then everyone only has to make one big trip! But I would talk to her about that definitely!
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@momma_dee yeah I just don't know how to talk to her about it
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@momma_dee it is upsetting because for my baby shower I was telling her we shouldnt do that because no one would come to shower my son, they would only come to for the reunion so we didnt do it . but it makes no sense that now my son is here and its his 1st birthday that she wants to do that now! Its frustrating because she always wants things done her way! Idk what to do!
Queen Bitch·
Anytime! I would be upset too! But it’s better to confront it head on than to let it get out of hand
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@sawyersmom thank you!!
Queen Bitch·
Well it’s your kid. So it’s your way or no way. And that’s how you need to face it lol
Jazzmine Valdez·
Мама сына-младенца
@sawyersmom its always been hard for me to talk to her about things because she's the type of person that its like "her way or no way".
Queen Bitch·
Talk to her about it. Just lay your feelings on the line