So I'm planning my sons birthday in June and i have my grandma(dads mom) helping me because she's very good at planning events. So of course its gonna be his first birthday and its supposed to be all about him right!? Well i overheard her telling a family member that the party is for my son and a "family reunion" !! How is that fair to my moms side of the family and my son!? Should I be upset or talk to her about it?? I need help 😣
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@jazzminevaldez, then put your food down. Say they can do it the day after but the day is supposed to be about your baby
@soda2010 she wants to do it same day, same location!!
Same weekend or same day? Same day absolutely not that’s very upsetting. If it was maybe the same weekend like party Saturday and reunion Sunday ok that’s fine because then everyone only has to make one big trip! But I would talk to her about that definitely!
@momma_dee yeah I just don't know how to talk to her about it
@momma_dee it is upsetting because for my baby shower I was telling her we shouldnt do that because no one would come to shower my son, they would only come to for the reunion so we didnt do it . but it makes no sense that now my son is here and its his 1st birthday that she wants to do that now! Its frustrating because she always wants things done her way! Idk what to do!
Anytime! I would be upset too! But it’s better to confront it head on than to let it get out of hand
Well it’s your kid. So it’s your way or no way. And that’s how you need to face it lol
@sawyersmom its always been hard for me to talk to her about things because she's the type of person that its like "her way or no way".
Talk to her about it. Just lay your feelings on the line
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@soda2010 I am , im just trying to figure out how to word it 😔