Did My Partner Choose Friends Over Family?
So pissed off, my s/o gets off work early and she texts me asking where I am I say im at my parents, he says oh my mom invited us to go eat, how long you think you will be I tell him about and hour the baby just fell asleep and I don't want to wake her up. He says they want to leave right now!!! So I tell him to go ahead and go, I wasn't going to wake up the baby because they want to leave right away. He tells me okay babe, I'll bring you left over or whatever you want.. I leave my parents at 8 and go to wait for him at his parents house with the babies, he texts me at 930 that he's at the bars with his sister, cousin and her husband. That he didn't drive and they abducted him😒 so I sat at his parents waiting with our kids waiting for the food he said he said he would bring and he just left me hanging to go drink. He knows I'm pissed!! But idk if I'm over reacting?? Just feels like he had a choice, he could of came back with his mom or aunt they live right next to eachother..could of said No I can't, Leslie and my babies are waiting for me..i said I would bring back food.he chose to ditch ua, so he wouldn't look lame to them
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Wow...what an asshole... probably did so he can hang out with other women
c. g·
Oh no that's not cool , if he had plans he should of told you first and besides he already said he would bring you food 😒😒😒😒.
Leslie. C·
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@sarahlee2019 asshole yea, but although he ditched us I know it's not to hang with other women. His cousin is very up front and if he did that she would tell me right away. She's told me things he's done before she didn't agree with. He did it to not look lame.
Leslie. C·
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@momofboth that's the thing he didn't and I'm okay with him going out with his friends. Everyone needs some time to themselves
The fact that he ditched me is what I'm more pissed off about. He had a choice and he pretty much said eff her she can wait. Offered to bring me food after.. no I'm good! Handle your priorities because now I know what they are...
c. g·
@lezlie527 yea that's not right he should of gave you the food first at least and talked to you about it.
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I would make him suffered for doing that
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I agree with u momofboth
Leslie. C·
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@momofboth I agree with you on that one. He didn't feel the need too, he just does what his sister tells him. She told him to use his last 2 weeks of his fmla to go to Amsterdame. I can't go because I'm undocumented!! And I wouldn't go either way i have a 1 yr old and a 5 month old that need me. So I'm sitting there as their making plans, he says idk I gotta talk to Leslie about it and she tells him you better go or I'm kicking your ass.
Leslie. C·
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@sarahlee2019 oh I am
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@lezlie527 no loving for him
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@lezlie527 wow if his sister told him to jump off a cliff would he
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@lezlie527 😑😑😑 well good thing his sister isn't his lady sooo...🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. I hate when family tries to get in between things they have no business in and if he don't want to go then he don't have to psh he's is a grown man😒😒😒.
KBB·
Мама троих детей
What a lame that he used “kidnapping” as an excuse to fuck off lmao
KBB·
Мама троих детей
My single ass SIL asks my MARRIED husband all the time if THEY want to get a party bus in Vegas “just siblings”
All his fucking siblings are single af and you’re going to ask the only married one to leave his wife and baby at home to party it up in Vegas?
Fuck you bitch, jump off a cliff, in a pond ... and drown🤷🏻♀️ she does this shit all the time.
But luckily my husband has a brain and knows what his duties are
Leslie. C·
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@momofboth I'm even more mad, that she know he for his bonus that's suppose to go to our family trip to Disneyland he invited him to go eat and made him pay for her, his sister, cousin, aunt and her husband. And I agree they do always get in our business it's so irritating!!
Leslie. C·
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My s/o is also recently single..and well she's enjoying her new single life. But she needs to understand that her brother has a family and they come first before anything. @queenmee my s/o is usually really good about this things, but when he's with people he use to hangout when he was single or without kids he tends to get his priorities all fucked up