My brother just gave birth to his 4th this morning! Sadly i don’t know 3 of his four kids so... its really nothing at…

@brynsmommie, oh my god that was the same thing. The calling and texting and they wont tell you!! And i still actually dont understand why he hates her so much... in fact the whole family. I just deal with it.Its already been many years. Time heals.

This sounds exactly like my situation! I only have one brother too and he hates my mom and my husband and he doesn’t know my 18 month old and I don’t know his 2 1/2 year old AND they just had another baby and I texted his wife and asked if it was a boy or girl and she told me that my brother told her she can’t tell me anything....totally fucked up and it’s so sad for our whole family! I feel for you, it just doesn’t make sense how people can shut out the people who raised them....

@carolbaez180 my mom is the same way...she hides it but we all know it kills her...especially when she actually saw one of my brothers kids and he didn't recognize her...she could hide those tears...

@babymomma2018, its alright. Its been years now. It gets better. But my mom on the other hands i think it hurts more every year but shes a stubborn puertorican. Their pride is too much.

@bbyzvcy18, Oh trust me i tried! He lives back in NyC. He doesnt like talking about them and he said ill see them right before he moves to new mexico. But thats years from now. Hes very possesive.

@carolbaez180 aww...thats terrible I'm so sorry...😢

@babymomma2018, same here i just have the one older brother me an him :m😢 he doesn’t let anyone in the family see them or even know about them. I found out he gave birth because i... stalked his page lol. He shunned us out. He starts talking to me little by little but when it comes to his kids he doesn’t reply or says he doesn’t want to talk about his kids with me or anyone. I only know the first one because they lived with us for the first year he was born. Now the oldest is 7

Awww. Oh my, that must be so hard. My brother has 3 girls and i love them to death. They run to me with big hugs everytime i go over, and it makes me full of joy! Why dont u try talking to him in visiting the kids if the problem is only between him and your mom. Sometimes a new birn baby just makes a big difference in everrthing.

I know how that feels...i have 9 older brothers and half of them hate my mom...i don't know those nieces and nephews hardly at all...it breaks my heart...they don't even know I'm their aunt