Ok ladies so I’m sorry but I need to rant lol so my hubby’s sisters all got something up their asses. For some reason they hate me. Like it’s bad. They aren’t even talking to my hubby which he is upset about because that’s his family. (Long story short we inherited my hubby’s parents house and they all got butt hurt about it) anyway, I’m doing my invites for my baby shower and my mother in law asked if we could invite his sisters. My hubby already told her no but I feel a little bad because they are still his sisters you know. And my hubby started crying about this. But I got to thinking, why should I feel bad. They shut us out of their lives, they talked mad shit about us. They mad that decision that they don’t want anything to do with us. Maybe it’s the hormones but I’m done being the nice person. I just feel hurt because they never even congratulated us about our pregnancy (this is our first). Can anyone relate or give advice or tell me if I’m being crazy? I feel like I’m going crazy lol and this whole situation is stressing me out. I just don’t want to deal with them or their drama anymore. They are grown ass women who are in their late 30s /early 40s acting like little girls.
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Wow... i can only imagine how you might be feeling.
I think... invite them. Lol.
I know... i know... Lol, even i'm tired of people telling me to "be the better person", but it is really true. Take it as in because you respect yourself and your man. Invite them and whether they come or not it's entirely up to them. At least you did your part.
Sometimes, something as small as a little baby can make a big difference in conflicts.
I love babies and maybe this is the break through.
Not sure how they are because they dont sound so pleasent, but dont be as little as they are... BE THE BIGGER PERSON. 💪❤
@mamaalejandro15, they seem unstable. Glad she made the right decision on giving you guys the house. There true side is coming out. Maybe one day they will get over it, or maybe not. I wouldn’t want my baby around anyone like that
@ttbaby09, it sucks that they have to act this way, my mother in law told me that she wanted us to have the house because she helped all of my hubby’s sisters with getting a house and they all ended up losing their house and foreclosure. She said that she wanted to take the house because she knows that he have steady jobs and will take care of the house which we have. I just don’t know if I can ever be Ok with them, they really disappoint me
@mamaalejandro15, yea... they are unhappy about the house so they need an outlet to take it out on.
@ttbaby09, that’s what I’m trying to avoid, and I don’t want any drama
They are bitter.. and I don’t blame you if you don’t want them there . You don’t want that negativity on your day and by the looks of it. Either they won’t go and ignore the invite or they will come to your shower and act like complete bitches.
@dwampler9116, yea, we were all fine before the whole inheritance. They even got mad at their mom for giving us the house. And my mother in law told us that they didn’t speak to her for a couple weeks because they said that she should have sat down with everyone and talked about it first. They all started talking behind our backs and they blocked me and their bother on Facebook , I’m just upset because they should be acting like adults, and for them to treat their youngest brother like this? Unexceptional
Sister in laws are the worst. And at that age they should act like adults and tolerate you because their brother chose you. Have they tried to get to know you?
@mamaalejandro15, I was literally just thinking that there’s obviously a reason why she wanted you guys to have the house. If they want to be mad at someone, it should be his mom. In laws can be real assholes.