So I am feeling frustrated for lack of a better term with my boyfriend and his friend. It's mainly how much time they spend together to the point that his friend is becoming almost dependent on spending every weekend with us. The back story is that his friend has ptsd and my boyfriend understands what's causes his episodes and by hanging out it makes his friend feel better. But at the same time he hardly sees his grandchild and my thing is I don't want my daughter to be our friends replacement for his own grandchild. Am I being selfish if I want to go like almost a month without constantly being around them?