So I am feeling frustrated for lack of a better term with my boyfriend and his friend. It's mainly how much time they spend together to the point that his friend is becoming almost dependent on spending every weekend with us. The back story is that his friend has ptsd and my boyfriend understands what's causes his episodes and by hanging out it makes his friend feel better. But at the same time he hardly sees his grandchild and my thing is I don't want my daughter to be our friends replacement for his own grandchild. Am I being selfish if I want to go like almost a month without constantly being around them?
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No. You need your own space. Maybe they can have a set schedule so the guy with PTSD has something predictable to look forward to. Maybe a Sunday twice a month. It's good to help people but you need to take care of you own family first.
Well they both work a Monday through Friday job at different places and only have the weekends off. And I have a tendency to be blunt when I say things if I am upset which is what I am trying to avoid. I did ask him if we could have next weekend to ourselves.
Yeah. Plus we still have the babies room and other rooms to get finished in our house and that's bothering me really bad right now.