His sister made a huge rumor that potentially just screwed up the entire mood of the baby shower (the whole family is fighting). It's nothing different. She always acts out when it comes to the baby. He is constantly making excuses for her saying it's cuz she has a mental issue and just wants attention. He always tells me to let it go.
Why should I let her get away with all the shit she does? Am I not important enough to have my back? Or ..if not me, our daughter. Is he gonna let her treat Marley like shit because she isn't getting enough attention due to Marley?
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@raycharles1230 I have been very supportive. But I'm not the kind of person who is gonna let a 30 year old act like a child because she has depression and attention issues. I don't necessarily care how they treat me cuz I'm a tough bitch, but if her acting out continues because Marley..I will snap. She has not acted out since they found out we we're having a baby. She goes out of her way to start issues between family members to ruin a baby shower. It's pathetic in my eyes. I know he doesn't want to take sides. That's fine. I told him he needs to treat every situation unique. If she starts a big enough issue then he better have our back. It's that simple. Just because she is your sister, doesn't mean she has a free pass to treat your fiancee and daughter like shit. I wouldn't let anyone make him feel unwelcome..so I would hope for the same
Maybe he tries not to give attention to it or her. That's his family as well as you guys. Have you tried to support him through issues she brings on? I don't think he is trying to disrespect you guys and I imagine dealing with her is not easy for him.
Sounds like she has some issues alright! But I would put her in her place...only takes a few times for women like that and they normally back down bc they aren't getting to type of attention they want