Is anyone upset because their partner smokes cigarettes? It takes so much of our money and I'm…

An addiction is an addiction. If he doesn't want to quit, he won't.

@mommy1991 Do You Smoke?

@newmamabear I did for about ten years

@mommy1991 what made you finally quit? :)

@newmamabear an anxiety attack. The very first I've ever had. I thought I was having a heart attack and went to the emergency clinic at the hospital. I never smoked another ciggerette.

@mommy1991 wow that's crazy, glad you're okay ! And congrats on quitting!

@newmamabear thanks but it's still not easy. I think about smoming all the time. I dream about it. I watch other people smoke and I want to smoke. It's really hard. I know it's frustrating and annoying but trust me, pushing it isn't gonna help. Might be why he feels like he has to tell you he's cutting back when he's not 😯

Me and my hubby had the exact same problem. We were both smokers before I got pregnant. When I did I quit and he continued smoking. Told him when baby was born he was going to have quit. Baby came and he still smokes. I don't let him around her when he smells. He has his times where he cuts down then it gets really bad. I've decided to leave it alone. The arguments aren't worth it. He knows how I feel he knows it's a costly thing. I just let him make that decision for himself

I smoked for 12 years and i hit the 2 month mark on the 23 of this month ... Just give it time and keep dropping hints about how much he is spending on cigarettes and then point out where the money could be better spend ... If you put into google how much he smokes a day and how much a pack is (as well as the aize of pack ur buying) they will break it down for you ... Good luck... Took me a while to come around to the idea but having 2 kids now...not worth the money or health problems

My hubby quit for his kids. Maybe yours will rethink his addiction and try to address it once he meets your little one 😊