Is anyone upset because their partner smokes cigarettes? It takes so much of our money and I'm worried about my baby growing up thinking smoking is okay... no offence to any smokers out there I do understand it's very addicting but he lies about cutting down and I have no faith he ever will quit...
I smoked for 12 years and i hit the 2 month mark on the 23 of this month ... Just give it time and keep dropping hints about how much he is spending on cigarettes and then point out where the money could be better spend ... If you put into google how much he smokes a day and how much a pack is (as well as the aize of pack ur buying) they will break it down for you ... Good luck... Took me a while to come around to the idea but having 2 kids now...not worth the money or health problems
Me and my hubby had the exact same problem. We were both smokers before I got pregnant. When I did I quit and he continued smoking. Told him when baby was born he was going to have quit. Baby came and he still smokes. I don't let him around her when he smells. He has his times where he cuts down then it gets really bad. I've decided to leave it alone. The arguments aren't worth it. He knows how I feel he knows it's a costly thing. I just let him make that decision for himself
@newmamabear thanks but it's still not easy. I think about smoming all the time. I dream about it. I watch other people smoke and I want to smoke. It's really hard. I know it's frustrating and annoying but trust me, pushing it isn't gonna help. Might be why he feels like he has to tell you he's cutting back when he's not 😯
@mommy1991 wow that's crazy, glad you're okay ! And congrats on quitting!
@newmamabear an anxiety attack. The very first I've ever had. I thought I was having a heart attack and went to the emergency clinic at the hospital. I never smoked another ciggerette.
An addiction is an addiction. If he doesn't want to quit, he won't.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
My hubby quit for his kids. Maybe yours will rethink his addiction and try to address it once he meets your little one 😊