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Kristy
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Is anyone upset because their partner smokes cigarettes? It takes so much of our money and I'm worried about my baby…

Is anyone upset because their partner smokes cigarettes? It takes so much of our money and I'm worried about my baby growing up thinking smoking is okay... no offence to any smokers out there I do understand it's very addicting but he lies about cutting down and I have no faith he ever will quit...

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My hubby quit for his kids. Maybe yours will rethink his addiction and try to address it once he meets your little one 😊

brittbritt1318

BrittBritt1318

Мама двоих (младенец)

I smoked for 12 years and i hit the 2 month mark on the 23 of this month ... Just give it time and keep dropping hints about how much he is spending on cigarettes and then point out where the money could be better spend ... If you put into google how much he smokes a day and how much a pack is (as well as the aize of pack ur buying) they will break it down for you ... Good luck... Took me a while to come around to the idea but having 2 kids now...not worth the money or health problems

mikaylanichol101

Mikayla Nichol

Мама дочки-младенца

Me and my hubby had the exact same problem. We were both smokers before I got pregnant. When I did I quit and he continued smoking. Told him when baby was born he was going to have quit. Baby came and he still smokes. I don't let him around her when he smells. He has his times where he cuts down then it gets really bad. I've decided to leave it alone. The arguments aren't worth it. He knows how I feel he knows it's a costly thing. I just let him make that decision for himself

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rashel

Мама дочки (1 год)

@newmamabear thanks but it's still not easy. I think about smoming all the time. I dream about it. I watch other people smoke and I want to smoke. It's really hard. I know it's frustrating and annoying but trust me, pushing it isn't gonna help. Might be why he feels like he has to tell you he's cutting back when he's not 😯

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Kristy

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@mommy1991 wow that's crazy, glad you're okay ! And congrats on quitting!

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rashel

Мама дочки (1 год)

@newmamabear an anxiety attack. The very first I've ever had. I thought I was having a heart attack and went to the emergency clinic at the hospital. I never smoked another ciggerette.

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Kristy

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@mommy1991 what made you finally quit? :)

mommy1991

rashel

Мама дочки (1 год)

@newmamabear I did for about ten years

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Kristy

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@mommy1991 Do You Smoke?

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rashel

Мама дочки (1 год)

An addiction is an addiction. If he doesn't want to quit, he won't.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?