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Branaya Dillard
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So question, i only pump at night cause my husband would like to wake up with him to but when i pump i only get about an…

So question, i only pump at night cause my husband would like to wake up with him to but when i pump i only get about an ounce. Is that normal for him only being 5days ? He's on the boob during the day. Also he nurses for about 15-20minutes why does he still not seem full? I read about cluster feeding could that be what he's doing ?

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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They nurse around the clock because they are growing around the clock. Before he was delivered a week ago he ate when he wanted. That is how it should go while out of the womb especially when breastfeeding. You dont want to pump to much right now. it can cause clogged ducts

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Yes. Very normal. you only need 1 oz a feeding

lovingmy_2

Fierra sylvester

Мама сына (1 год)

Pumping was the only way I actually could tell if my son was getting enough milk but he also wouldn’t latch on much to nurse long. His tummy is so little still so he should be fine. The more you pump your milk will increase. It’s recommend that you pump every 3hrs or so to keep it flowing

kambam

kammy

Мама сына (1 год)

Sounds like you're doing perfect then. I always suggest not pumping. I know dad wants to be involved but there's other ways. I've been cosleeping since day 1 as well... pretty much how all breastfeeding moms get sleep. Put on boob, pass out, repeat.

branayadillard

Branaya Dillard

Мама троих детей

@kambam, yes those & soiled as well. I feel like most of my day is spent with him on my boob 😂

kambam

kammy

Мама сына (1 год)

You'll know he's eating enough by his diaper count. Is he making plenty of wet diapers? They are little leeches until about 6w and then they will be less needy.

branayadillard

Branaya Dillard

Мама троих детей

@kambam, how long does it usually last? I feel like he's never full lol.

kambam

kammy

Мама сына (1 год)

1oz is totally average. He's comfort nursing and probably cluster feeding as well. All they want is mama.

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