These past few days have been extremely overwhelming for me. I just had pretty much an emergency c…
These past few days have been extremely overwhelming for me. I just had pretty much an emergency c section and i’m not feeling 100%. All these people wanting to come see the baby are driving me insane. She’s in the nicu and she needs to grow. She doesn’t need all these people coming in and out. And I have people giving me a hard time about who’s getting to hold her and who isn’t. I’ve already cried about it because I just can’t take it anymore. She’s only 4 days old...
MoT·
Just tell the hospital staff that the visits aren't allowing you and the baby to get the rest you need and see of they can ask family to take a break. When my daughter came they actually came in and told me they would turn family away if I asked them to because they were concerned with the lack of rest we were both getting.
Lulu·
This is the time for you and your baby.
Turn off your phone or tell a friend or family member to send a generic text saying you are not yet accepting visitors. Or you would rather see them when you’re not there with the flu and everything going around.
Don’t let people manipulate you into giving up rest for a visit. This is your time to recover. Tell the nurse to reject visitors.
I hope you feel better soon. Enjoy your little girl.