@juliaschade41 yup they controlling and to me i just have a connection with them on a sex level

@cieracooper21 exactly. Cuz i dated a guy for a whole year who was 30 years older than me. Fell in love and everything. Then he became too controlling.

@juliaschade41 maybe its just certain guys foreal foreal it depends were they mind set is at

@cieracooper21 I'm 24 and am really only interested in guys 30 years old or older. I love men in their 40s especially. Lol

@cieracooper21 we have a lot in common...i wasn't into clubbing..i have lived on my own since i was 16...he wasn't into hanging out w his boys its all about me ❤.I met him and had a 5 yr old son he treated him like his own.. He had a daughter who was 6 at time and the mother was a drug addict. Long story..so he liked i didn't drink i don't smoke.i had a career I'm still in 19 yrs pet grooming i have always had my shit together .He said my eyes and the type of mom i was so young and all about my son made him know i was a good woman

@morganmommy79 yeah because he didnt act his age he had mental problems and the only conntection we had was sex and all we really did

@cieracooper21, age probably wasn't the problem for you. Me and my husband are 5 years apart and barely agree on anything. It's most likely personality incompatibility.

@mommytojj wow idk maybe its the type of guy u get

@sherrynygirl how yall do it because when i dated a man 35 smh we didnt have nothing in common and we was on two different levels and didnt like the same stuff... Only connection was sex

I was 22 yrs old when i met my man he was 32..we have been together 16 yrs

@cieracooper21 hey if it's not for you its not for you and that's all there is to it. You need to be happy that's what matters!

@ohbabybaby88 lol for some people i tryed it ..

@morganmommy79 yeah im saying that because you think differenly dont see eye to eye listen to different stuff look at different things and like its just very different my experience

@cieracooper21, exactly!!!!

I'm 31 my bf is 43 and its the happiest healthiest relationship I have ever had.

@parismommmy i agree i totally do because we not on same level and we have to different ways of thinking

I think if there’s more then a 5 year difference it’s not gonna work out.

My parents are 18 years apart been married 40+ years. The hardest thing is the generation gap. My dad is old school and my mom sees things differently a lot of the time

@cieracooper21 if they both care about each other, and on the same maturity level there shouldn't be a reason for them not too

@mckallalynn.. I know im saying far as do you think they would work out

As long as their 18 they can make their own decisions with who they wanna date or marry, age doesn't matter when your legal.