Unless I’m playing with him my husband will only get his xbox out after I have fallen asleep or I’m occupied doing something of my own, like taking a long bath. See if you can come to some type of a compromise with him

I know how you feel. For me, esp with this pregnancy i get super duper emo, blow things out of proportion... only to calm down a few hours later and realized everything was fine and i just over imagined things. Lol... i know im so mean to him but i too just cant stop this lonely feeling even when hes literally holding me. Haha

@twistedrenots I'm just so tired of being alone and feeling like I'm needy or begging for attention.

@zoeysmomma2016 Definitely, I understand. I didn't mean to make it sound like you were like, "no you can't play" lol i totally get where you're coming from 100%. I've been there. But like I said, I would just mention it again. And tell him how you feel and tell him you're tired of repeating how you feel since you've already talked to him about it before in the past. Guys are really oblivious sometimes to what they are doing apparently. Like, they think because you're there in the room that's "hanging out"

@twistedrenots oh of course. I mean... Im the one who has bought nearly all his games in the past 5 years. So I support his hobby and friendship. I just wish he would like to spend time with me too.

@zoeysmomma2016 my boyfriend definitely enjoys his guy time though so I let him have it but there's a line that doesn't need to be crossed in doing so. He should definitely take your feelings into consideration

@zoeysmomma2016 girl I sucked too until I got into it. 😂 I still suck sometimes but it's just a good laugh we get out of it. I'm sure there are some things you can do together still. Just gotta find them. I would talk to him again and go from there. Ask him what he likes/wants to do, and do those things. And you should do the same. Things you wanna do, he should do them with you and there has to be somewhere you can meet in the middle and have fun together.

@twistedrenots I've tried. I'm horrible and its embarriaing. I don't understand why we can't do stuff together that we both can enjoy. Maybe after 5 years he's just done...

I definitely second the playing with him one! I used to hate it but once I started playing and gave it a chance, I love playing and especially with my boyfriend. It's definitely something we do together and can have fun and hang out.

@zaushka_me I feel like I have though. And he genuinely seems remorseful but there's never any change... maybe I'm just not fun to hang out with... 😔