Well My New Years resolution is trying to be more prepared for the unexpected especially with my ex.…
Well My New Years resolution is trying to be more prepared for the unexpected especially with my ex. And of course after dealing with my mans ex last week, my ex decides to attempt to pressure me today when it is my day with my son for time with him so he can give him presents from his aunt and uncle... 🙄 I don't bother these people for anything. Not my mans ex, I let him handle that and they get along well, she just doesn't like me 🙄. That's great! My ex is an asshole and believes no one tells him no, he doesn't like me because I do. I am not a people pleaser. I do what is right. I treat everyone the same. I usually would let my son go but this is extremely last minute, and every time my son comes back from his dads he is overly whiny about everything, he is extremely self centered, and hyper and I hate how I feel like I have to "reprogram" my kid every time he comes home. I would rather enjoy doing things with him but instead we are always having to correct when he randomly hits people, plays too rough, says incredibly mean/rude comments to everyone... :( he is so much better when he leaves my house to go to his dads and he is happy but this is not how a parent should have to parent their kid. I have tried to talk to his father about it and of course how dare I question his parenting and his response is always that he does the same things I do at my house as far as discipline and redirection. 😒 there's no way! I hate this situation so much...
Crystal·
My ex isn’t allowed to have my daughter if it’s last minute
Crystal·
But I also have sole custody so he can’t do shit really
Rachel Adams·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@crystal.newman, I have primary custody of my son as well. He tried to lie to our closest friends that he does and I barely have our son... haha no it's the other way around. He just loves to make people think he is perfect and he is far from it. I believe he doesn't like to believe I have primary custody. I try to be nice and civil but he annoys me when he refuses to realize he doesn't have control.
Crystal·
@raycharles1230, my ex does the exact same thing. But I just tell his as no and get over it.
Crystal·
Plus my daughter always came back exhausted and scared to cry. She was always just plain miserable and came to find out he wasn’t feeding her correctly so I just said screw it. You don’t get her and if you got a problem take it to court because as of now I have visitation at my sole discretion meaning I say when he gets her and literally he can’t do crap about it for another year and a half because the judge won’t change the custodial agreement for 2 years
Rachel Adams·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Oh yes I have noticed his father brain washes him when it comes to eating... I don't get it at all! I am big on making sure my kids always have some sort of vegetable and/or fruit with every meal. But when he comes back from his dads he suddenly won't eat fruits or vegetables at all and he says he doesn't like them??? Wtf??? But I always make him try them and he always says oh I forgot I like this. This drives me nuts
Susy Ramos·
OMGosh i have shared custody of my son with my ex and it’s exactly like that for me. I always feel i go 3 steps forward and 2 backward with his learning and manners. And it makes it that much harder since my son has speech delay. I totally on the same boat! Ugh.. so frustrating.