Lastnight I was talking to my father in laws girl friend about the situation with my husband. She told his dad about it and he texted rick😒. Well I asked him what he said to his dad and he said "nothing, I didn't want to make you look like a fool for telling me to leave"! Little does he know that his dad agreed with me that I was right to tell him to leave! He said that he appreciates me taking such good care if his son and grandbabies and I'm like a daughter to him and if I ever need him to wAtch the twins to get a nap or shower that he'd always be available to come help. That meant alot to me. But see Rick thinks his dad sided with him. That I was in the wrong. Um no lol his dad ALWAYS sides with me because he doesn't like the way his son is getting. Lazy. And not wanting to help me. He raised rick and his twin brother by himself and knows how hard it is. He gave up everything for his sons and now he's seeing how rick is being and is really upset about it. He said I should NEVER have to beg or even ask his son for help. He should see when I get overwhelmed and just do things for me so it's easier on me.... I really do appreciate his dad and him always trying to give me encouraging words I just wish his son could here those words too..
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@aareina17 i think so too! As soon as we go completely nuts they might start actin right lol
My man works and I stay home so I give him alot of lazy time lol . But he does help me tho if I really need it . And if my man wasn't helping me at all i wouldn't be helping him at all . See that's the problem with some men showing their son's it's okay to be lazy and only pay bills smh . Don't have kids if your not going to help . 😒😒😒
@aareina17 yes they do! But I want some every now and then just have no energy and I'm like can you hurry up? Lol get it over with?
@aareina17, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead I’m the same way he called me a skinny botch the other day and said my skin hanging off my body then wanna talk shit so he wanted my hoo ha I said nope I’m to skinny !!
@twinmomma2b, hell I’d take 1 hour at night hell 30 mins 😫
@aareina17 exactly. He says I'm crazy. And I'm a bitch. And all this other stuff but has he thought about why I act the way I do? Nope. I hope they eventually figure it out and act right. I get tired of hearing him ask a million times for a bj or sex and just give in to make him shut up
@blessed.mommy aw thank you ❤ yeah I'm surprised how much I do without help. But my kids keep me going. I love my father in law he's awesome hes a really good dad and grandpa
@aareina17 exactly! It's crazy how much they change on us and think they stayed the same and it is us that have changed
@lydia09876 I literally get like maybe 2 or 3 baths a week if I'm lucky because at the end of the day I'm just so exhausted I can keep my eyes open. The kids are teething so bad right now they wake up almost as soon as I put one in the crib. Men don't understand I think. Just alittle effort and help itd be great and so helpful
@aareina17 oh and if he ever does anything then he bitches about it the whole time and for days
@aareina17 right I need all the little bit of sleep I get and when he wants to be an ass why in hell would I want to have sex with u I'm good with going to bed for sleep lol
@aareina17 I know right or I get well if u don't want to have sex with me then who u Fen aa how about no one I'm exhausted and don't care for it maybe if I had some help I'd have energy for sex men I swear or I should say big ass babies lol
@lydia09876 mine will only help get it out of the car if he wants to leave or he'll go through the bags looking for something to snack on
@twinmomma2b, I can’t even take a bath everyone else does hot water runs out and he like doo to doo
@aareina17 @aareina17 I have one of my own lol I'm good. Shit I might give mine away too lol😂😆
@lydia09876 I understand how that is! I'll have both babies in my arms and he will look at me and ask me to hand him something or do something for him. Like just now he asked me to do a tattoo on him tomorrow! I looked at him and told him he's stupid asf thinking I'm gonna tattoo him with everything i have going on! And when he asked why not I'm like we'll he's the list of reasons why lol I'm tired and exhausted from doing everything myself! I literally have no time for a t minute break but you can't watch the kids for me ever. And you think I'm gonna just make time to tattoo you when there is no time??? Hahaha right
It’s important to have support. How awesome it’s your FIL!
@aareina17, pull up with groceries 3 kids and his setting on the couch playing a game ass won’t move to help bring it but sure will eat the food up
Yup it's true...I swear I do everything for my partner he doesn't lift a finger at home.... I've gotten used to it...
@twinmomma2b, right I cry a lot thinking how am I gonna do this I have bags under my eyes I look like the penguins eyes off bat man
@lydia09876 smh. Men don't know what they have. Or how much we actually do for them.
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That's great his dad is on your side, hopefully he comes to his senses soon
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@aareina17 I understand you hun . Do what you have to do 😊. Your doing the right thing . You are a great mom . You and your children deserve the best.