Has any mommy out there had their husband hit them when they argue? Lately it’s been happening more…
Has any mommy out there had their husband hit them when they argue? Lately it’s been happening more and more and as of right now we’re living with my parents and in our most recent argument he threatened that he would beat me when we live on our own and we argue. To be honest I’ve grown scared of him. And more than being scared of him for my physical sake I’m even more terrified of the effects this may have on my baby boy. My baby boy, Jude loves his dad. He looks at him as if he’s a super hero. He’s only 2 months old and of course doesn’t know what’s going on but as he grows I know he will. Will he just side with his dad and I’ll lose him forever if I were to divorce him? Will he grow up to be a woman beater also? I know I don’t really know anyone here but I could really use some encouragement
deleted-user·
Leave if you can
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
I know how hard this situation is. Please leave and find somewhere safe to stay. Document all abuse for future court visits. Record your conversations if you can. This man does not love you and you're better off without him. Get out.
Rikki🌙·
Leave asap. If your son grows up around that he isn't going to know what a healthy relationship is and it's going to take a toll on him. For your sake and your child's, please leave. He's only going to get worse and he may end up hurting the baby. Y'all live with your parents so tell him to get out and let your parents know about the situation. Call the police of needed. If he treats you this way and speaks to you in that manner, he doesn't love you.
Priscilla·
Мама троих детей
u need to leave please i have gone threw this i was 16 when this first happen n im 26 and its still hapening it wont stop he will contunie bc he knows u wont do anything about it and u allow it u didnt set boundried and now he knows he can plz it will affect ur kids and despite if he says he will change and nit do it again is a lie trust me does ur parents know about this?
adaneli reyes·
Мама сына-младенца
Leave. Your child shouldn’t grow up in an environment that you feel is not safe. If it’s in your hands to make sure your child doesn’t end up like that do it , love shouldn’t cause damage.
danielle@barton·
Leave. The longer you wait, the harder it will be.
Alex ·
Мама троих детей
yes! get out any way you can! find a better man! No man should hit a woman or he's not a man. what if he starts hitting the child!.. abusive relationship.. get help from fam. and friends get out while your boy is little save him the hurt.