Needing to figure out a way to manage my stress better, I’m afraid I’m going to go into early labor…
Needing to figure out a way to manage my stress better, I’m afraid I’m going to go into early labor because of my stress level.
* My sister is living with us for now, and she wants to move to the new house with us but she isn’t contributing anything worth while... Her dog can’t be trusted around my toddler and eventually the baby, because she has bit my toddlers hand 3 times. She poops in the house, and my sister doesn’t clean it up, I have to. She poops in her room and she just steps in it and leaves it or tracks it through the house....
* She is bitching about having to find a place to move to, and is snarky towards me for not letting her move with us, to a 2 bedroom house with no egress windows...
* We are buying a house, and only close family know about it. So there is the stress of the loan, down payment, transferring bills etc.
* I’m the only one packing the house now. Mom and nana will help me clean it, and hubby and his friends will move everything.
* Hubby is working more hours to save up money for the few days he may have to take off for the birth, and the increase of bills that come with buying the new house...
* Since hubby is working more, the toddler doesn’t get daddy time (he is the favorite) so she is acting up for me. She peed in the hallway 3’ from the toilet and 5’ from her potty chair..... Back talking and tantrums galore....
* We can’t start moving into the new house for at least another week.
* I’m due in 6 weeks but the baby could come any time now because of my damn stress level...
* I forgot to mention my bipolar, insane mother in law who is also an alcoholic....
Sarah ·
@lana2018, old enough to know better! She’s 28. We call each other sister because we are the closest thing to a sister each other has... She has a heart condition and has depression and PTSD, so living with someone helps her mentally and keeps her from getting to depressed..
Katrina Zander·
Sorry hun but she needs to find someone else to stress out. You need to put you and your kids first. If she's not helping then she needs to go. You are enabling her and it's just going to get worse. Not much I can help with other then saying what I think. I help things get better soon.
Sarah ·
@isabellesmomma212, @lana2018, She’s paid rent up until Feb. I just need to make it till then.
She is totally just walking over me. She bitches about the dishes being dirty but doesn’t do any, and 2 of 3 everything is dirty in her room! I packed all the dishes except for 3. 3 cups, 3 plates, 3 bowls etc. I should have known she was going to trash her room she did the last time she was here and she’s never kept a clean house! At least when my dogs have an accident in the house they do it on their piddle pads!
Sarah ·
@lana2018, A new born and a toddler, 2 small dogs, 2 pet rats and a fish... Oh and a husband if you count him! LOL
When she moved back in she said she would help me pack but she is never home. She is either at work or at her F-buddies house, where she can’t take her dumb ass dog! So she’s hardly home and I am stuck watching another dog that I don’t particularly like...
Sarah ·
@lana2018, um.... I had patience?
I don’t any more. LOL
Plus the bipolar, alcoholic mother in law, and now a sick toddler....
Mrs. Crystal Mahmud·
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First off kick her or give real truth that your pregnant and your not taking her bs no more. And please i have never hear of anyone who has PTSD who will not clean because i have it. And i clean my house, take care cleaning my and my husband dishes, and have to go to do my job taking photos at my husband music shows. PTSD is bad to have but if you put in a good way of mind set than you are good to go. Its about and your babies not about her if she has problems with her PTSD tell her to go to groups and get help what is seems she just using that to make you feel bad knowing their is a lot of help for people who have PTSD. and i know this because i had from the age 6 and never use my PTSD to make my friends feel bad for me.
Sarah ·
@mrs.crystalmahmud, not saying she can't do things bc of her ptsd, just that it's better when she lives with someone... that's the part I feel bad about.
But yes! Her not cleaning up after herself is BS...
Sarah ·
@lana2018, up till now I've been knitting like crazy. Keeps my hands and mind busy and distracted. But I need to be packing...
Mrs. Crystal Mahmud·
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You like knitting. I like crocheting I've crocheting a baby blanket for my son so he has something nice once he is born
Sarah ·
@mrs.crystalmahmud, I knitted a cozy sack and hat!
I can't crochet to save my life! LOL
Mrs. Crystal Mahmud·
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Same with knitting for me