Well after 5 years on and off i finally let go it hurts alot because we have a baby on the way but i couldn’t let…

I am so sorry to hear that girl , You will get through this. I hope all is well for you & your precious baby .

@keilaa, thank you so much

Things will get better girl 💙

@angelina_cxoxo, thank you I’m praying it does all I’ve been doing is crying

@cocochanel27, i could only imagine if you need to talk I’m here!

@angelina_cxoxo, thank you i appreciate it

Girl i know exactly how you feel! I’ve been through that and it’s not fun but you will come up stronger than ever! You got this girl!

@susyr86, I’m trying to hold it together i don’t wanna harm my unborn child but crying helps and also hurt

Girl, no doubt it will get lonely and feeling a little incomplete... BUT you have us here to vent to. Take it easy and remember that baby comes first. I'm glad you recognized that you were unhappy because a lot of women dont realize it during a break up. When you indeed allow yourself to recognize and accept that it wasnt a happy and healthy relationship you will be 100x more glad to let it go. Happiness is the key to success.

We are right around the same age and our due date is right around the same time. I know how you feel esp us women at our age... we just want the real deal before the big 30! Therefore if it aint worth it, dont waste anymore time!

@bbyzvcy18, i totally agree I’m two years from it and always told my bd that if we are not getting married what are we together for... he always said he wanted to marry me but never took the steps to get himself together so it could happen... the first sign i seen that i needed to let go was when i would ask him something and he would get smart and loud for no reason then when i told him to change his attitude he didn’t and i was changing all the way around but it wasn’t for the good and i lost myself in the process... this man is 36 years old and uses every excuse in the book and i was tired of it so i mentally prepared myself to leave and his bm inboxed me and told me to leave before it was to late and i thought she was being a hater but she actually was trying to save me so i wouldn’t make the same mistake she did and i didn’t listen and now I’m bringing a baby into the world with someone i know will not be there because weed and shoes is his main priority not his kids

Cry let it all out. You deserve happiness. If you not at your best how can you give it to the babies. So this is going to make life so much easier for you guys ❤️❤️

@dekenyathornton, ok I’m so ready to be happy

@cocochanel27, I tell my daughter all the time don’t settle because if I had someone to tell me that when I was younger my life would be completely different. Even though we still together after 25 years I still wish I would have chosen happiness. We good now but it took a lot prayer and work. Somebody will love and treat you the way you deserve I promise ❤️❤️.

@dekenyathornton, thank you i really needed that i lost my mom at 17 and wish she was here to tell me how to handle these situations

@mollyruthpeel, thanks I’m trying

@cocochanel27, your more than welcome and if you need to chat I’m here❤️❤️❤️

@dekenyathornton, ok

@cocochanel27 Oh my.... i know what you mean. Doesnt it make you sad to wonder when they will marry you? It's not just about getting married, it's about commitment and starting a family/life! People might look at us and think why are we asking them for marriage... the point is we invested so many years with them. We committed to them in hopes of dieing old with them. My man and i had this problem right before i found out i was pregnant. Hes changed a little but the sad thing is he avoids the marriage topic too. I know how you feel... while you're free stay free dear. You'd rather be alone then to be with someone and feel alone. What you get in return from a heart break is HAPPINESS... soooooo worth it.