venting....finally confessed to my mom what i’ve been goin through in my relationship. i could tell…
venting....finally confessed to my mom what i’ve been goin through in my relationship. i could tell she’s disappointed in my bf n how things turned out. she said she knows im not goin to be with him long cause it’s not like me to put up with stuff like this (true). she said to focus on myself n my baby n just stay with him at least till after the baby born n see if anything changes...in my opinion at the end of the day it’s my fault for choosing him. even though he didn’t show his ass til i got pregnant. i should’ve waited n it’s my fault im in this situation. but im going to make the best of it
Regan·
It is not your fault and you should never feel stuck. If you are unhappy I promise you it will impact your children more if they see you in living an unhealthy relationship than if you split up and coparent pleasantly. I would definitely not give up easily because some things are worth fighting for and things may get better when the baby comes, but don’t feel like you are forced to maintain an unhealthy relationship just because you have a child. I’m sure you’re a strong woman and will make the right decision for you and your children ❤️
Tashiana ·
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@newmock, yeah id rather coparent n not be in the relationship. we barely in a relationship anyway. im the one doing everything. he doesn’t drive or pay for anything or live here. im happiest when we not talking. i’ll try to stay til the baby gets here but im not dealing with this while having a newborn so if nothing changes im done. ..tried breaking up with him a couple weeks ago but he blew my phone up n argued me down for hours til i felt guilty n changed my mind
Regan·
I will keep you in my prayers! You should not be guilted into being with someone, especially if they are doing nothing positive for you.