Well. I told my husband to leave. I guess I'm a single mom. Smfh. I'm done. I done begged for his help with the kids over and over again and asked and asked. I told him if he didn't wake up( this was at 2:30) that he can just leave because I feel like I'm a single mom what in the fuck do I need him for if he isn't going to help me. He said " I don't take demands" yeah well guess what? I done asked over and over again and I've done went in there bawling my eyes out BEGGING him to watch them for 5 minutes while I took a breather outside! I'm DONE! EITHER YOU CAN HELP OR GTFO!
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My boyfriend Always thinks I’m bluffing to and he just stays there like nothing when I kick him out he doesn’t even leave and he always apologizing and says the same shit all the time and cries and ends up staying instead of leaving 🙄🤦🏻♀️.. wish they would just listen
I hope he actually gets out of the house because him just sitting down watching videos shows that he thinks you’re bluffing. I’d call the police and have them escort him off the property.
@morganmommy79 nope. Just that he doesn't take demands. Just keeps watching fb videos. Ignoring me.
@miniwolfe he's gotta find a place to go and people to help because he's in a wheelchair 😔 I feel like a piece of shit. But I can't do it anymore
@twinmomma2b, I tell my husband the same thing. No one would ever put up with what I do. Has he said anything else? I'm hoping he snaps out of it and recognizes what you do for him and the babies
@miniwolfe i have yet i was stupid and just took what I could get which was pretty much nothing. But now I'm so done. I'm not taking no one shit no more.
@crazyazzmom he was just starring at his phone watching videos like I wasn't standing there talking to him
@mom_x3_x2bonuskids yeah I'll always have my babies ❤ and they need their father but their father needs to want to help with them.
@twinmomma2b don't worry girl he will see that he is a fool and come crawling back begging you . You got this girl. You deserve better .
@morganmommy79 yeah. This is my house so he'd have to leave. I told him no other women will wake up in the middle of the night to do everything he needs done for himself. I do it because I love him more than anyone else ever could or will but it's not good enough I guess
@d0iinjusfiin3 I love him with all my heart but I gotta see an improvement when he leaves or he never really cared 😢
@momofboth I'm literally bawling my eyes out talking to him and he's just looking at his phone like he doesn't care. I'm bring the boxes in and packing his shit.
❤️❤️❤️ you got this girl. Stick to your guns! I hope he realizes you’re serious and that he either changes or actually gets out. They are just as much his kids as they are yours.
@morganmommy79 that sounds like mine. I kicked him out twice. He recently got a dwi so he can't go out much so he's back but who knows how long things are gonna last. I'm just glad I got a job now because he knows I'll kick him out again. It's my apt and I plan on putting only my name again on my next apt. I ain't playing that shit! There's only so much we can put up with. And one of those things is our kids. Not another grown person shoot.
You're stronger than I am. I actually packed my bags once and he promised to change. So I stayed. He's helping with the baby so much more but not with the house. I can handle some of that but he's such a slob. Sometimes it takes something drastic to wake them up
It's going to be hard but believe me you will feel better that he's gone.
They are already 7 months old. It looks like he didn't plan on changing his ways and helping you. You did the right thing. You will feel less stressed out without him there.
That's right you go girl . You can do bad all by yourself. If he's not going to help you don't need him .
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
I couldn’t imagine taking care of twins by myself!!! My boyfriend doesn’t help with anything when it comes to our son... props to you for doing what you did!! C