bartender/waitress moms-to-be! I currently bartend & take tables at my work. my shifts are 7-8 hours long but very high pace. I am currently 25 weeks and due May 1st. I was wondering from experience or preference, should I bartend up until I deliver? should I go down to just serving April 1st? or should I just finish off saving the amount of money I need saved then stop working?
@swanson.jacquelyn Didnt need to prep anything. Plus i wanted more time with my baby once they are born. I dont want to go back to work when my baby is 3 weeks old because i took off too early before the baby was born. Just me though. I got to spend 2 plus months with each baby
@swanson.jacquelyn With my son, yes; with my daughter, no. I had plenty of time to prepare for her.
Go off of how you feel. My first pregnancy I worked up until the day I had her. Even worked two days in a row 12 hour shifts just a day before she came lol. Some momma need that break though. This pregnancy I honeestly don’t think I could do half of the stuff I did with my first My body hates me this time haha!
@sassymom @beemommyof3 y'all wish you would have taken time off to prep before the baby came or no?
It all depends on you and your pregnancy. I was a manager at a major theme park when I was pregnant with my son. Not only did I work right up until the end, but the last month we had a huge event going on all month. At nine months pregnant, I was still moving kegs and cases of beer. Fast forward to my pregnancy with my daughter, and it was hard. I had to drop down to minimal shifts every week by my second trimester and ended up on bed rest the last month (morning sickness and swelling were huge factors).
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Should I let my x know when labor starts
My boyfriend just asked if he could invite his ex gf who is also his current best friend to the baby shower...should I allow it
Go with whatever is most physically comfortable dont push yourself to hard for the money aspect of it. Remember a job you love you will never work a day in your life