I’ll probably regret posting this, but... I just don’t understand how the same parents that are so against spanking are the same parents yelling and screaming at their kids? Like how is a swat done correctly and calmly and with explanation be worse than dramatic, emotional yelling?? I’ve heard from truly abused as children adults say that it was the words that stuck with them and damaged them long after the physical pain was over. Just some thoughts🤷🏻♀️