That doesn't make any sense. They are his kids too. You shouldn't even have to ask. Does he not like them or something?

Omg you described my ex to a T! My ex did the same thing. Wouldn’t sleep until 4am, stayed up playing video games and barely helped me at all. He also hadsleeping problems but I’ve had enough with no help from him so I kicked him out at 4am cause I was SO sleep deprived and I was just done. We broke up obviously and now he’s willing to do whatever it takes, because he knows he can’t do this without me. I told him that I’m already a single mom doing everything on my own and he was just dead weight holding me back. I told him if he ACTUALLY wants to be a dad, he has to prove himself because I’ve already proved that i can do it without him and that breaks his heart

same I literally have to put the baby in daycare and change my schedule because he can’t be bothered

@miniwolfe giving him a choice of anything is just going to cause a huge fight like the last time. He switches everything around

@miniwolfe I agree. I mean He doesn't ever get to go anywhere so I do understand why he plays games so much just not when I ask him to help for a few minutez. He can play games during the day but go to sleep like a normal adult. He's 30 btw.

I would talk with him or write him a letter how u feel. I've written letters and they actually pay attention to what they are reading and I gave him an ultimatum

@twinmomma2b how old is he if u don't mind me asking?

Wow & u have twins. That's even harder

My husband was like that back in the day with our 1st child. He needed a big wake up call before he changed and started helping so much without an attitude. He doesn't even play video games anymore only on the weekends or about an hour at night if the kids r sleeping and I'm taking a bath.

Ur husband should help a lot more and try to play video games on the weekends when he has time after he helps u. And he wouldn't be so tired if he didn't stay up so late.

@miniwolfe he's always had sleeping problems but it doesn't help that he is sitting on the game's all night long. I used to put them next to him and make him watch them but now I won't do that because Kai is rolling soo much if you don't watch him like really watch him he will end up falling off our bed. My husband just lays there with his eyes closed and not paying attention. unless he's sitting up and wake atleast alittle I won't leave them with him.

Wow, he sounds very childish and selfish. Why go to bed at 3am? Is it work related or jusy cuz he likes to? And he needs to give u a break period. I literlly will flop our son on my husband and say" I'm going to shower," he can care less. He doesn't see it as a chore. They are his kids also.

He needs to get used to being a present parent and partner and help u. Ugh I'm sorry but he needs a kick in the butt

@diegosmommy0213 read my previous post. My husband is being a dick

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@twinmomma2b I'm sorry. If I was you if just do the same to him. Be like we'll you need to get used to doing shit for yourself bc I have to take care of the babies. He may get mad but I get where ur coming from. You need a break.

@nitarose070793 well yesterday i was having one of my lil mini " om gonna go insane if I don't get a few minutes to myself" moments and I went into our room where he was asleep (He went to bed at like 4am like always) it was at like 3ish in the afternoon and I was bawling my eyes out i was crying so bad and basically begging for him to just watch them for 2 minutes so I could walk out side to get a breath of fresh air so I don't hurt myself like I used to when I got like that. He told me he was tired and went back to sleep so I kinda flipped out. And I thought he understood when I feel like I'm getting that feeling like I know how I'm about to be I need a breather and apparently he doesnt get it. I went and asked him to watch them so I could just go to the bathroom (I hadn't used the bathroom in hours and almost used the bathroom on myself) and he said no that he's so tired still and he's sleeping so I yelled at him, and slammed my door and ran to the bathroom while our babies are literally screaming so hard in the crib. It broke my heart hearing them cry like that but I had to go to the bathroom. He always tells me I need to get used to dealing with two babies.... I am used to it. I just need a 2 minute break once in a while. Is that too much to ask for? I know I can just leave them in the crib but they scream until they can't anymore if I leave like that! He doesn't understand at all 😔

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