So today I went into the ER due to stomach pains & the midwife decided to check if I was dilated. She said I was only 1 cm dilated - so what I wanna know is, is that okay for someone who’s about to be 36 weeks on Tuesday? Should I be concerned or is that not a big deal? She didn’t seem to stress it but I thought to be dilated meant to close to going into labor? Pls help, thanks (:
Thanks ladies I really appreciate it cause this is my first bby and I sometimes feel silly over asking my doctor questions. It also doesn’t help that I don’t have a single doctor I see a handful so así always forget to ask because I see so many people.
I was one centimeter for 2 weeks before i had my daughter:)
Some people can be slightly dilated for weeks before going into labor I think I started dilating around then with both of my kiddos :)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
you’re totally fine! for a first time momma usually you don’t dilate much if at all until you’re in labor. with my first i don’t think i dilated any until i actually went into labor. but with my 2nd and 3rd i had started dilating since 32/33 weeks. dilation is okay. if your cervix starts to thin out then you should be more careful!