So today I went into the ER due to stomach pains & the midwife decided to check if I was dilated. She said I was only 1 cm dilated - so what I wanna know is, is that okay for someone who’s about to be 36 weeks on Tuesday? Should I be concerned or is that not a big deal? She didn’t seem to stress it but I thought to be dilated meant to close to going into labor? Pls help, thanks (: