You guys. I’m in a fucking dilemma. I’m at Jr.’s grandmother’s house because she is throwing me a baby shower tomorrow. This is the woman that cut my child’s hair for the first time ever that I was pissed about. Well last week his hair was kinda wonky and she said she wants to cut it. I said, “no you are not touching his hair again since you went behind our backs the first time.” So, tonight, she takes a shower with him and guess what? She cuts his fucking hair!!!! What am I supposed to do? My SO, her son, isn’t here. I’m by myself. So I just went down to the basement to be by myself to cool down. And then the baby shower tomorrow? Like wtf. It’s like I go back and forth from being grateful for all she does to being insanely annoyed at the boundaries she oversteps. Please. I need advice.