So I gave in and had sex with my boyfriend last night I am 3w4days pp. it didn’t really hurt, more uncomfortable, but I…

Don’t worry that’s normal I gave in too at 3 Weeks pp and I had a c section I spotted a little after it went away after awhile

@nessairieray, okay good! I was just hoping I didn’t hurt nothing lol

@peoplecallmesatan, lol I thought that too 😂

- You didn’t hurt to move like that after the csection ? @nessairieray

- Nope, it’s normal. I had sex twice after having my first son, one that week, one two weeks later, and now I have little Theodore who will be here in a month 😅😅 be careful!

@beccaaalynnn11, I definitely need to be careful I don’t want another one lol 😂 we actually used a condom for once on the bright side lol

- We have never used condoms.. almost ten years ago, I was told I’d never conceive.. my two fiancés never had to worry about anything. 😅 We weren’t thinking. But I’m glad I have a second chance to be a mom. (: Pregnanxy back to back is a nightmare. For me at least. 😅

@beccaaalynnn11, yes girl the first time hurt but after that I was good ☺️

- Damn. My people have me freaked out that I’m going to be miserable for six weeks.. It hurt your incision or the penetration hurt ? @nessairieray

@beccaaalynnn11, girl it’s not that bad lol it depends how fast you heal and get back to yourself lol it hurt my incision inside because I got staples and then on top I got the glue but it still felt amazing haha

- My grandma wants to stay with me the first two weeks to take care of me. And then have my sister stay at night for a month after that to help me lift the baby .. I’ve been freaking out so hard lately 🙈 I’d love to not ever have sex again, to be able to. But it’s all I ever want. And I feel bad because I want it more than my guy can handle 😅 @nessairieray,

@beccaaalynnn11, is this your first c section??

- Yes! 😱 @nessairieray

@beccaaalynnn11, omg!! Yeah girl but your more prepared because you know it’s coming I was blind sided completely they told me at the last minute I was having one I couldn’t stop crying! But don’t worry but make sure when your in the car you hug that little pillow they give you because it hurts every time you go over a bump on the road but other than that it’s not so bad

- I’ve known since day one and I’ve been choking on anxiety. Thanks for the tip! I definitely will! I’ve already moved so I wouldn’t have any stairs to go up. Which sucked, but was necessary. When I think about how close it is I have a full on meltdown. Had one for two days. All I did was cry and panic about what I have left to do and what not. @nessairieray, do you have to have a repeat one this time ?

@beccaaalynnn11, awwwwww I’m so sorry girl I seriously can tell you it’ll be okay you will have your husband there with you to hold your hand. I don’t want to say the wrong thing to freak you out but I was scared and I hyperventilated right there on the operating table I kept throwing up to top it off they just gave me too much drugs And that’s the beauty about having a vaginal delivery the 1st time that now this time I am having a vaginal delivery ☺️ I can see you had one the first time with your son 😃 but why the c section now?

- My guy keeps bouncing back and forth, he’s so afraid of everything that’s going to happen because he was there the first time, I wouldn’t let him leave. He may not even want to be there. I think it’ll be good for him though. Yikes, I can see that happening to me. My luck I’ll aspirate on the table 😅🤦🏻‍♀️ I had complications with my first son. A csection is to avoid/ be more safe for everyone.. and I’m okay with that. Or trying to be. @nessairieray

@beccaaalynnn11, awwww its okay they have a lot of nurses there with you talking to you and before they start operating on you they always let you know each step of what they are about to do. My husband had to walk out for a sec because he almost fainted. Lol