Getting to the point where I don't think I want anybody at the hospital when I give birth

This time, I’m not having anyone at the hospital besides my husband of course. I’m not even telling anyone I’m in labor.. I got called selfish but truly I don’t give a fuck 🤷🏼‍♀️

I don’t blame you . I wanted my hubby and that was it but my mom guilt tripped me into letting her come in . She automatically assumed that she would go in the room when I had my second. My first daughter was with us when her sister was born but she freaked out and wanted daddy he took her out and he missed the birth of our second because my mom told us our oldest wanted daddy . The third time it was just my hubby and our two daughters we didn’t plan them being there but my in laws didn’t get there in time to take them home . My oldest was so excited that when she was born she said her baby’s here . Thank god they were up by my head.

Your body, your baby, your birth, your choice! Go for it girl! It’s a once in a lifetime experience. To heck with everyone else 💪🏼💪🏼

You are not alone

@crystal.newman, that's understandable good luck on your birth !!

@jadasweet0218, yeah so this time just gonna be me and the hubs.

@crystal.newman, sounds a lot like how my birth went with my first daughter I'm sorry you went through that

@jadasweet0218, well last time I gave birth my mom was there and step dad and all of my exes family. Well my mom literally was arguing with my exes family right when I had just came out of delivery right in front of the nursery. Apparently both sides of the family were fighting because they all couldn’t come back and see a baby come out of my vagina! Only 2 people are allowed and I chose my mom and ex. That’s fucking reasonable right??? Well they didn’t think so. And then my ex was going behind my back and taking Melody out of the room and letting all his dirty family mess with her WHILE I WAS COMPLETELY SEDATED. Like THERE WAS SO MANY NASTY PEOPLE THAT WANTED TO TOUCH HER. Then on top of that my mom has to make literally everything about her. it was just a mess

@tavi.young, girl I just can't wait I'm more miserable with the fact that I have to live with my mom than anything I really can't wait to go back to work

Okay as long as you're getting taken care of I know you're miserable and whenever the day comes everyone can wait until you're ready for them to meet baby girl^-^

@tavi.young, no girl ig he's getting my room and stuff together idk but I told him no later than the 20th so I'm fine with that

She doesn't have anything better to do with her life honestly and he hasn't let you know a date yet?! I have doc on Wednesday and id baby isn't here yet I'm being induced Thursday that's crazy!

@tavi.young, no my doctors appointment is Wednesday he hasn't let me know a date yet and wow why is she like that that's over the top

Same my fiancé's grandmother is psychotic about my baby Like has easily spent over 1500 on the baby already and is all up my cooch it's so bad she will literally try to get the nurses on her side or ask an orderly on a different floor to get my room number (I know because she did it for my fiancé's little brother) So I have had to lay down the law and she went so far as talking to my mother on Facebook trying to get her to let her in when she learned my mom isn't even allowed in XD I feel the pain! Is your induction still scheduled for Wednesday if baby girl still decides to be stubborn?

@tavi.young, yes I had to tell my grandma the same she got it bad and I just don't got time my family is a little too much drama

Yes I had to tell my mother I love her but not allowed in the delivery room she was distraught! But its my baby and I can't deal with someone trying to coach me through the pain Fiancé only allowed because he knows when to keep his mouth shut

@crystal.newman, why

No one will be allowed at the hospital when I give birth.

@kkmamax3, I know the feeling this will be my last baby for a few years 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@jadasweet0218, it’s my last baby ever too! I just want this to be special for us!

@casshay, exactly I couldn't believe they started acting like that and my daughter wasn't even born for 24 hours and they're arguing already I was pissed

@kkmamax3, it's not selfish at all it's your baby screw them

This time, I’m not having anyone at the hospital besides my husband of course. I’m not even telling anyone I’m in labor.. I got called selfish but truly I don’t give a fuck 🤷🏼‍♀️

Fr. tho that's the wrong time for bs

@casshay, yea I had problems at the hospital with my first because of her dad and my mom and I just don't got time for that shit

💯💯💯💯 & I don't want everybody to see what's between my legs idc if I am giving birth ... I learned my lesson from my last child

@casshay, exactly that shit is annoying asf I just feel like I wanna be by myself when I have my baby I don't want any and everybody there I don't even think I want my mom there 😒

You not the only one.💯💯💯 my biggest problem is ppl making noise, talking and giggling while I'm in pain.. I would literally put everybody clean out & hurt feeling & not care at all 💯💯