Thanks ladies I just was having a melt down this morning my oh works hard too but during the week doesn't help with the night feeds and I find myself so exhausted from getting up and down I have the weekends off but nice to know I'm not the only one xx

My husband works 9 to 5 weekdays but he leaves at 7.30 and comes back at 6.30. So I've got the kids all day. When he comes back he gives Zaid a bath. That's pretty much it on a weekday. Sometimes if asked he'll wash dishes and tidy up the kids mess, if I'm too tired. On weekends Atleast 1 weekend he'll let me lie in while he gives Zaid breakfast and plays. Around the house he takes the kitchen bin out, cleans the bathroom and sorts the fridge... that's it really. Lol. If asked tbh he'd do more, but he's lazy and does things so slow I cba asking.

Works hard and provides for his family 😍 we share cooking as he is such a better cook than I am lol. Helps around the house when he's home xxx

My partner is a full time Dad now so he does pretty much everything on the days I work and then I do the majority when I have days off whilst I work 3 or 4 12.5hr shifts a week so it's pretty fair x

My partner works full time 5/6 days a week so I have both babies on my own till 5 o'clock when he comes in he has shower and his tea by the time hes finished its the babies bed time so he gets them both ready for bed most nights puts there pjs on and brushes there teeth and puts them both too bed maybe sometimes he will do the dishes but not often,he will help around the house but I have to.moan at him too do it or he won't Xx @sandrabouwhuis_13

It's pretty 50/50 in our house. We both work & we both look after the boys. I do nights if either wakes but otherwise the hubbies pretty hands on with everything.

My husband works and i stay at home. We grt up together at 6 and have a coffee together. He goes off to work and i get Ellis ready for school and stay at home with the girls. He usually gets home around 6. We take it in turns to cook (it depends on how the kids have been. If they have been stressful he cooks) the person who didnt cook has to clear up. He takes charge of bathing Lola and i deal with Ellis and Maeve. He usually put the two older children to bed and i feed/change Maeve ready for bed. Hes very good and does a lot around the house. The obly thing he doesnt do is wash clothes as i dont trust him! He changes nappies and cleans so hes a good one!

My husband works nights so he has to sleep during the day before his next shift, so I sort the kids out during the night, and then do everything during the day till 4pm when he gets up, when he comes downstairs he watches the kids while I do dinner etc, then we bath them together and he'll put caitlin to bed while I settle Oliver. On his days off he does the washing up sometimes apart from that I pretty much do everything which is annoying cause I know he can do more but that's just the way he is and I can't be asked to argue with him about it anymore so I just get on with it cause even when he does it he doesn't do it properly xx

We both work full time we get up together he gets Harvey ready while I get ready xx on the days I finish earlier I'll pick him up from nursery otherwise gen does it xx at the weekends we get a lie in 1 day and the other will get up take it in turns xx we split teas and chores 50 50 xx

He works four on four off 12 hour shifts and I'm a SAHM. So when he's in work he gets up at 4:30am, goes to work, comes home at 7:30pm and spends a couple of hours with the baby before bed. On his days off he usually cooks tea and and helps a lot with the baby x

He gets up at 5am he works full time he cooks the tea and helps with kids only thing he's not done is night feeds x