So long story short... I was unfaithful to my still SO , a little over 2 years ago and ever since…
So long story short... I was unfaithful to my still SO , a little over 2 years ago and ever since I've been more faithful then ever. Well tonight out of the blue he calls me a whore and says I'm lying again all because he says my V smells like cum. And he thinks it's lose (keep in mind I had just taken out a tampon.) Ugh I don't know what to do. I'm up crying wishing i had someone to talk to 😭 I wish I could change my past so much it hurts.
Kadie🌙·
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He sounds like a child lol.
Monica Gilbert·
@twistedrenots sometimes he can be when he is drinking .. but I love him and our daughter so much 😣
Marilu·
Most likely something has happened or popped up that triggered that memory for him. But he's being totally unfair. Just because you were unfaithful two years ago doesn't mean you still wear that label. And even though he's being very rude and immature about it, it is hard to overcome infidelity. He needs to handle the situation better if something is bothering him. Maybe he just needs a little space for a moment. And I'm not making excuses for him. Men just don't deal like we do
Monica Gilbert·
@morganmommy79 no I understand I know I messed up and I know he is gonna have his moments just last night was different. And just sudden. We are okay now. I just wish I knew how to help him you know ? Ugh I hate when he gets them feelings
Monica Gilbert·
@mamaprince I wish I could roll my eyes.. I guess I'm not to that point yet . His drinking is what me to slip and cheat a few years ago. He's alot better now I just hate it. He will never completely quit drinking no matter what
Monica Gilbert·
@mamaprince I have been trying. I have only managed to get him down to drinking a few times a week. He says it keeps him from breaking down and being a mess I guess and takes away the stress from work
Marilu·
@annabellasmom, all I can tell you is my ex was online talking to women and had lust issues. When we went thru counseling I still struggled with trust. The only way he could help me get thru that was to prove to me anytime I needed it that he wasn't cheating. Keep his phone out in the open. No passwords or codes. And to just love me thru any time I felt hurt again. He wasn't willing to do that. Things got worse and we are divorced now. I'm remarried and I carry that baggage with me. It's hard to trust again.
Monica Gilbert·
@morganmommy79 I really hope we never end up like that. Things defiwnetly where getting better just a minor set back we had last night. He says he is okay now it just sucks.
Monica Gilbert·
@morganmommy79 and I'm sorry to hear that
Marilu·
@annabellasmom, I hope it never ends that way for you either. And I don't think it will. All you have to do is focus on each other and not the past. I couldn't let it go and he couldn't focus. We could've tried harder but didn't. Always forgive and always remind each other how much you love each other ❤️
Monica Gilbert·
@morganmommy79 Thank You Momma You've Been So Helpful
Marilu·
@annabellasmom, no problem. You're welcome 😊