Any mama on here can give me advise about custody this is new too me and I’m terrified of letting my baby go anywhere without me. My child father and I are not together, I had to basically run away because he was abusive and now he keeps texting me he is taking me to court for custody
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
getting closer to my bf leaving me. which would be great if he wasn’t going to take full custody of my son once hes born. that’ll kill me
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
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Мама дочки (6 лет)
@heera, thank you so much
coley ·
Мама дочки (6 лет)
@virgosweetness, okay thank you so much I really appreciate it
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I had no job because i stayed home with kids when me and my older kids father divorced and went to child support court, but because they were always with me i got custody and got a job quick. I was a single mom working and doing my own for 8 years before i met my youngest kid dad.
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Go to court first and file , that way u have the upper hand and say what u want. And dont let him have the kid until it happens. At this point no one has custody. If the kid is in his custody when he files he is allowed to keep him until the court day when they decide who gets custody. Have proof of his mishaps, real proof. Ask for the maximum put of him so u know youre child is taken care of. He trying to fuck u so no use being nice. U will get custody tho, they rarely give dads custody unless there is proof of alcohol or drug problem on yourself and make sure u stay clean of everything
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He can go to court and fight for custody but as long as you can prove he’s an unfit parent they won’t give him custody. It’s a process but obviously they’ll look into what will be in the best interest of the child, who has a stable job, whose been providing etc etc.