Sometime my SO other doesn't understand my son and we get into arguments because he thinks " im babying him" or "I'm giving in to him" he makes me feel bad for trying to tuck him in and make him comfortable to fall asleep. Does he not understand cause biologically he isn't his?? Will this change when our son is born?
Sheri AМама сына (5 лет), беременна (24 нед.)
@justinakmatta, Agreed 🙏🏼 thanks now I don't feel crazy for comforting my child
He's 5, not 15. There is absolutely nothing wrong with comforting a child like wtf?
Rochelle Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет)
I'm dealing with the same situation with my husband and my oldest. He swears he needs to be strict with him but it breaks my heart. I don't want my son to grow up hating him.
VeeМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
@sheribabyy your not at fault your child grew up with you and he just came in the picture your child is adjusting and also you doing what u always do will help your child he can help but not in force stuff this is your son your the main authority not him
@sheribabyy I would be annoyed and hurt, too. You're not in the wrong at all. He should understand that you want to make sure your son is okay and comfortable, nobody likes going to bed with worries on their shoulders. Children should have the same comfort as adults. That kinda pisses me off now 😡
Jasmine Lewis Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
Oh no, I refuse to allow any mama even think she's at fault for being a loving caring mom. You are amazing and your son knows it. It's about time your SO caught up to that fact!!
Sheri AМама сына (5 лет), беременна (24 нед.)
@jasminelewis655, @verguinia, @lovely246, I just don't get why it matters to him if I lay with my son and talk to him for a few minutes or tell him a dream and make sure he's okay and the nightlight is on before he goes to sleep. But my SO will shut the door and wonder why he's crying and screaming - he didn't turn a nightlight on, when he knows he doesn't like the dark and then when I confront him saying why he didn't turn the nightlight on he tells me it didn't work. But you didn't have the decency to tell me it was broken to make my son feel comfortable going to bed instead he wants him to scream and cry himself to bed........ I don't get it. Then I wanna go in there to comfort my son and fix his light and calm him down my SO other wants to yell at and start fighting saying he's 5 he's to big for all this your just babying him. Like no u don't get it. But I'm at fault. Smh
Jasmine Lewis Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
Same. I'm always accused of letting my son walk all over me. He just turned 3. I don't pay it any attention I just ignore him and love on my son even more just to irritate my SO some more. It actually sounds kinda sad writing it out to think anyone would be jealous or mad at a mom for tucking in their child, reading a bedtime story or singing a lullaby.
VeeМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
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VeeМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
Men to me are usually tough on the kids but we women soften them up I feel like a child needs both but the rigging him in at night nothing wrong with that he is being too much !!!
He might be the same way with your newborn. He could just be jealous lol I hope he breaks it though because you should both be tucking him in at night and making your son feel loved and even your husband likes to be babied so I don't wanna here that bs lol
I want to say yes!!! @sheribabyy
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
My boyfriend is so upset that I didn’t give our son his last name but I have 4 other kids that has my last name I didn’t want to make him the only one with a different last name. Is that selfish of me? Or should he just understand. We not married
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Megan ·Мама двоих (6 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
My husband does the same shit. Makes me so mad.. I don't care how old my child is I will be there no matter what.. half the time I tell my husband to shut the fuck up and mind his own damn business.. and always say "sorry your mother was never like this to you " that seems to get him to settle down lol Cherish these moments! Cause they won't be little forever..
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