Hey ladies, how soon after having a vaginal delivery did you have sex with your boyfriend or husband? They said 4 to 6 weeks but I'm fine down there now. I'm not bleeding anymore or anything.. how long did you wait?
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@johnsonarriel24 Ahahaha I'm too scared to. Was just curious.
@mberjuste5 Lol I haven't done it yet, I was just curious when you guys did it.
@abreton666 girl wait! its only been a week!
I had sex with a condom on after 2 weeks. I went really slow and it hurt to go too deep so uhhhh yeah i wouldn't recommend it.
I waited 8-10 weeks. I had a 3rd degree tear after an episiotomy, and a 10 lb baby after 42 hours of labor. Sex was the LAST thing on my mind, and when it did pop up I was like “HELL NO!” My husband is not small by any means. So frankly I was afraid of the pain.
4 to 6 weeks isnt for healing alone. It is to avoid the risk of infection, hemorrhage or bleeding, pregnancy etc. So even though you may be "fine down there" it isnt recommended to do so for your safety
@abreton666, He was 8-14 and 22in, with a big head, lol. He got stuck and the vacuum couldn’t even get him out. I wound up pushing him out somehow in 36 min
@lizibear84, seconded. You can get an infection and as previously mentioned, you are immensely fertile. I waited 8 weeks and the pain was so intense that I had to stop. Waited another month after that.
I would wait. At least until you get the okay from the doctor. The risks of infection and getting pregnant again so soon aren’t worth waiting a couple more weeks.
@lizibear84 Ugh that sucks, with my first baby I tore down there and needed stitches for my second and third I didn't tear it all so that's good
I would wait (not telling you what to do)just because you can be at risk for infection and you’re also very fertile after birth, plus you can still spot here and there, i still spot and my daughter is 5 weeks old.
Waitttrrr.. Please just wait at least 3 more wks....he can hold on
But you also run the risk of infection if you have sex too soon.
6 weeks
You're also super fertile tight after birth so keep that in mind as well
I waited 8 weeks. I bled for 4 and had a 2nd degree tear, so I had stitches. We could’ve had it before then, but you’re also super fertile right after birth, so I was paranoid
how did you know you were pregnant?
How did you know you were pregnant?? Did you have bad cramping ect?
how'd you meet your SO?
I'm curious and nosey how did you guys meet?
How long have you and your partner been together? How did y'all meet ? No judging 👀
How did you know you were pregnant?
How did you find out?
Ok so I want to know how everyone found out you were pregnant! Were you trying, was it morning sickness or did you just have a feeling?
@lizibear84 wow