So today my husband put his foot down with his brother... before when we were dating my husband and his brother would always help people out or go do things together and at the time we weren’t living together so I didn’t mind but once I moved in with him it started to bug me because my husband would always tell me he’s tired from work and didn’t want to do anything but once the weekend came him and his brother would leave to car shows and after a while I told him I’m not gonna make him choose but he needs to understand he has a family now and he can’t just get up and go like before and I would tell his brother the same thing so today my husband comes home from work tired since it was his first day back and was like well my brother called me and asked if I wanted to go with him to his job but I said I had to come ask you and I will take the baby with us I looked at him and said ummm no the baby just got done getting over being sick and it’s cold and the kids get out of school at 2 and he’s like well that’s why I’ll take the baby so you don’t have to take her so I’m already annoyed then his brother calls him and he’s like so do you want to go and my husband tells him no I can’t I have kids now and I can’t get up and go anymore. I mean I don’t want to come in between him and his brother but dam it’s like I’m a single mom again because his brother expects my husband to drop everything and just go like before