After being cheated on and divorced by my husband, then discovering I was PREGNANT and had his baby, paying off 4000.00+…

After being cheated on and divorced by my husband, then discovering I was PREGNANT and had his baby, paying off 4000.00+ of debt from all the bills and damages he did to our apartment and backrent, and worked through contractions until I finally gave in and went on maternity leave...had the baby. Can’t get cash assistance or child support because it’ll establish him as a father and make it easier for him to have some custody (alcoholic drug using cheating a-hole doesn’t deserve custody and my son sure doesn’t deserve to have to deal with his sperm donors negative influence)...I finally felt like I had gotten my life back on track. Had all of the debt paid off, and was expecting my tax return this year. Have been without a car for almost a year. No car means terrible hours at work, which means very little income. Living paycheck to paycheck and getting help from family sucks but it’s all I could do. Now I find out that a debt collector is after me for one of our joint credit cards from before the divorce...and they’re going to report me to the credit agency for not paying...which of course I can’t without a car and hours at work....UGHHH! So mad I’m just so mad. Anyone else out there need a friend? I’m a single mom who’s having a hard time and just need people to talk to. Nobody I know gets it 😭