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I dont know what to do... im in a abusive marriage and i dont know what to do about it... if i leave or if he leaves…

I dont know what to do... im in a abusive marriage and i dont know what to do about it... if i leave or if he leaves then hes taking my 7 month old with him.... i dont know what to do...

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Call the police and get a restraining order. Leave him now!! He cant take your children. Go somewhere safe

del_1519170273_damiensmommy11176

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I messaged you hun.

valerie.solis21

Valerie

If you leave you can take the babys with you and have sole custody because he’s abusive!

kai_miller

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@beemommyof3 i did call the cops once and they said that since there wasnt evidence of any fighting that they couldn't do anything they just made him leave the house for a few hours

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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@kai_miller Well then just leave, find a safe place and go. do you have proof he is threatening you with your child

moonchild.

Rikki🌙

@kai_miller leave with the kid when he isn't there.

kai_miller

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@beemommyof3 no... i dont habe proof of anything just if he agrees it happened..

kai_miller

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@tattooedmamalion I'm not sure

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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If you have family, use them. If you have a battered womens shelter then use them. Put together an escape plan and get out as soon as it is safe too.

kai_miller

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@beemommyof3 i dont even have a car or a job, i cant take care of my kids..

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Yes you can!!! You dont need a car, they have busses and cabs and uber. You can get a job and they can help you achieve that at the center.

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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For the sake of your child you need to protect her from what you are going through. Trust it will be her turn one day. You arw stronger than you think. I have been there. It doesnt get better.

kai_miller

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@beemommyof3 i dont have money to my name... he doesnt even give me spending money... im selling almost all my stuff so i have money

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Im sorry to hear that.

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Your kids are so it is better to do this while they dont know what is going on. You can get a job anywhere really to get some money, fast food or whatever

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?