Okay so I know I started it lol but I hate playing this stupid silent treatment with my Husband 🙄🤦🏻♀️ either him or me wont budge it’s annoying it feels like a game of “let’s see who gives in first” 😩 and then him being away in Missouri for AIT makes it worse 😏 #forgotwhywerefighting
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I jus love him.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
😩😤😫😨😔 Should I send him this or wait to talk to him .
Annie H·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
Talk talk talk . It's the best thing you can do . 🗣
c. g·
Yup the best thing to do is talk don't play his game . You be the bigger person girl. Don't make the arguments in to a competition ❤
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bugs039, @momofboth, i did talk to him that’s why he left me on silent my man hates when I tell him how I feel lol
Jeanette Zavala·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
Be prepared to read lol :
Def if u forgot why y’all were fighting try the forget and forgive method lol if it were my hubby and I we do it all the time the way we get over it is we leave it alone like the thing is we both have an understanding of eachother and how we act or what we say when we are upset we both know more half of the time we don’t mean it. So What either he or I do is just text or call and act like nothing. I would be like , “hey babe wyd?” Or if one of the kids do something funny I send him a text with what they did and laugh and then we are back to normal and vise versa he with I. And then we would calmly talk about it later if he issue is sill on either his or my mind.
c. g·
@nessairieray did you say how you feel calmly?
c. g·
@gnetzavala yes 😊
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@gnetzavala, I did that I said good morning and I love you and he still isn’t being bitter lol I let it go but he holds grudges he will get over it just gotta give him some space and girl we got into it because he can’t talk to me like he used to anymore and it buggs me he’s at training school for the army and he’s in class right now so it’s harder for us to work it out when he’s not down the street ya know
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@momofboth, no lol I tried though trust me
Jeanette Zavala·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
Oh yeah definitely much harder to work out but also more of a reason to pick and choose the battles
c. g·
@nessairieray yelling won't make it better either and if can't talk to him calmly that's not good. You should wait till both of you are calm to talk .
c. g·
@nessairieray i agree pick and choose battles
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@momofboth, all this happened thru text you know they can’t talk on the phone at AIT lol it’ll work itself out he will call me later after class I hate getting into the dumbest arguments 😩😫
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@momofboth, @gnetzavala, thank you ladies for your thoughts and positive words appreciate it ☺️😃💕
Jeanette Zavala·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
No prob hun ❤️