I'm 20 Years Old single mom . My son dad passed away like 7 months ago I miss him so much but I'm learning to move on and I had accept things for what they are I'm still some what grieving I can't go a day without thinking about him . But I'm still human and theirs a few guys who catch my eye and spark my interest I've recently been seeing this one guy he's a dad of 3 and has 3 baby mothers his youngest just a few weeks old he made it clear he does not want a relationship right now and I agree because I'm not stable for one right now myself but omg I'm growing on him. He told me he was starting to catch feelings and I try to hide the fact that I am too only cause I don't want to expose it and end up getting hurt Plus my kid met him I want to protect us not to mention after I see him we go days without speaking I know he works but a text only takes 5 seconds. Idk am I In over my head ? I know it's just sex but I don't know how to do that without getting emotionally attached lol it's my body. I'm young keep in mind
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The problem with it being just sex is that 1) Women naturally develop feelings for someone they're having sex with. 2) What if you become BM#4, could you handle the drama?
@shorty02, as a boyfriend? No. A long time friend maybe. I already told him that's one reason why we could never work
@cianarod_, My child’s father had 3 kids within 2 years from 2 different women, sadly I being one of them, so I’m just trying to help a girl out 😉😁. There are better men out there, just gotta wait Haha
@krprincipe, Your right I been thinking hard about it lately
Based on experience, I would say to not do it. That many babies from that many different women is a bad sign, in my opinion.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I'm in labor
Guys, I've been in labor I guess since 9pm Sunday. .that I know.
Some of you guys might remember my post of a few nights ago about dating again. Well the mister called my dad(he has his number due to my car) and asked him if he was ok with us talking & trying things out. 😱
My dad just told me & I'm in shock lmao
I didn't even know he was going to call him about me. Wth!
Cute & all but it's crazy how much he cares for me! 😍🙈
Its never just sex. You were kidding yourself with that line. But something good can come of this if you both are super honest with each other. Don't dither about what to tell him or when to text him. Just do. Be 100% and tell him your exact feelings. If it blossoms then wonderful. If not you have to accept that and decide if "just sex" is something that you can live with. Women have this tendency to dance around men when we should just be blunt. Men understand blunt better then dancing. Lol