I'm 20 Years Old single mom . My son dad passed away like 7 months ago I miss him so much but I'm…
I'm 20 Years Old single mom . My son dad passed away like 7 months ago I miss him so much but I'm learning to move on and I had accept things for what they are I'm still some what grieving I can't go a day without thinking about him . But I'm still human and theirs a few guys who catch my eye and spark my interest I've recently been seeing this one guy he's a dad of 3 and has 3 baby mothers his youngest just a few weeks old he made it clear he does not want a relationship right now and I agree because I'm not stable for one right now myself but omg I'm growing on him. He told me he was starting to catch feelings and I try to hide the fact that I am too only cause I don't want to expose it and end up getting hurt Plus my kid met him I want to protect us not to mention after I see him we go days without speaking I know he works but a text only takes 5 seconds. Idk am I In over my head ? I know it's just sex but I don't know how to do that without getting emotionally attached lol it's my body. I'm young keep in mind
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Awww 🙏🏾 for ur family what happened
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@brown.sugar, okay I will 😩
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@dearestdaughters, he passed away in his sleep
Katie·
Мама сына (1 год)
Based on experience, I would say to not do it. That many babies from that many different women is a bad sign, in my opinion.
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@krprincipe, Your right I been thinking hard about it lately
Q U E T A✨·
Dang
Katie·
Мама сына (1 год)
@cianarod_, My child’s father had 3 kids within 2 years from 2 different women, sadly I being one of them, so I’m just trying to help a girl out 😉😁. There are better men out there, just gotta wait Haha
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Not judging.. But u sure u want a man with 3 different baby mothers?
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@krprincipe, I agree
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@shorty02, as a boyfriend? No. A long time friend maybe. I already told him that's one reason why we could never work
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@cianarod_ 👏
becky·
Мама троих детей
The problem with it being just sex is that 1) Women naturally develop feelings for someone they're having sex with. 2) What if you become BM#4, could you handle the drama?
Ciana Rodriguez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@scot0305, your absolutely right
Charlotte Jorgensen·
Мама дочки-младенца
Its never just sex. You were kidding yourself with that line. But something good can come of this if you both are super honest with each other. Don't dither about what to tell him or when to text him. Just do. Be 100% and tell him your exact feelings. If it blossoms then wonderful. If not you have to accept that and decide if "just sex" is something that you can live with. Women have this tendency to dance around men when we should just be blunt. Men understand blunt better then dancing. Lol