Last big birthday party for my kids for the next 4 years. My daughter 1st bday was toy story theme…

Last big birthday party for my kids for the next 4 years. My daughter 1st bday was toy story theme and she was Jessie. We picked it because her name is Jessie as well and it just fit perfectly. Now the planning for my son begging next month and what better way then to also match his name to the theme.. Willie wonka/Charlie and the chocolate factory. We're so excited! And by no means does it mean we won't celebrate years 2,3 and 4. They just won't get a big party, one it's stressful 2 it's alot of money, my so and I do all the work while everyone is on the sidelines of how we should do things..yeah No!! We decided 1,5,10,15 or 16, 18 and 21 for their big parties. We did get the side eye from his mom like she's the one paying for it.. pshhhftt! Not your kids stay in your lane lady, when you offer to pitch in(not with money) just helping in general then we will talk. As of now your opinion means zero!!!!!