i’ve spent 9 months trying to make my bf love me again & it’s just not working.. feel like i’m the only one who even…

Look, don't you ever effing down you're self for no man , it's not the fact you're not worthy for him. He knows you're way too good, let him go do you boo, and move on up the latter, more fish in the sea than just the one you're chasing , you are beautiful!!

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. Have you had a conversation with him to let him know you’re feeling neglected and unloved?

Try to look at your relationship through a friend’s eyes. What’s going right and what things do you want to change?

You should have a heart-to-heart talk with him to give him another chance to make an effort. If things don’t improve, do some soul searching to figure out if this is something you want to continue to deal with.

All relationships are challenging, but love and respect must always be present.

You should just move on. Never chase a man! If he wanted to be around then he would be around! Your beautiful, find someone who is worthy of you and that baby!

I can relate to this so freaking much.

I think u should leave him

I can relate as well. And please stop beating yourself up about it. It only makes things worse. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.

@lulu85_18, i’ve had some conversations about it & he says he will fix it every time.. i just don’t see it. i don’t feel loved by him and it sucks because i give him my whole heart 😭

@kamsmom, thank you girl

@kartersmommyy, more than welcome

I'm sorry hun . Why don't you feel loved?

@mami1234, i just feel like i’m the only one putting in any effort into the relationship anymore

@kartersmommyy oh I'm sorry hun. I think it's time to let go if he's not putting in nothing . I know you don't want your little family a part but it's not worth it if your not happy . You have to be happy for you and your son. You can do bad all by yourself girl.