I literally hate when every time I try to say something regarding my child someone has something to say about it ESPECIALLY my SO. He’s got some haunted horror movie on TV and when Jax came in and started staring straight at it I asked if we could watch something else. He said it’s not like he knows what it is... it’s scary that’s what and I’m sorry I don’t want my 2 year old watching that stupid shit. I don’t watch it myself. Same thing with the cussing.. I’m trying to stop myself, but he always says it’s not like he knows what it means or something like that... how fucking idiotic does that sound?! Ok so he’ll treat them as normal words and go into daycare repeating everything and not knowing he shouldn’t say them?! Ughhhhhh lord help me not strangle this dude.
Stay strong! Don't let anyone make you budge! I'm with you! No one is perfect, but kids are where we have a chance to change the world, raise a generation so its worth doing to the best of our ability
Two is definitely old enough to understand and feel fear when they see things on television. The scary part is they can't always put their feelings into words. So if something really upsets them they can't even talk to you and express what is effecting them. My daughter lost it during Mulan when it was on because the matchmaker sits on hot coals and they fan her and her butt starts on fire. Something I never would have thought of. We rarely watch TV and I turned it on when she was sick. She is pretty verbal and it took me all night to get her to calm down. They understand more then you think. TV is a dangerous thing. Stick to your guns!!! Your 100% right!!!
@poohpooh45, girl sameee, ain’t no room to be playing around about raising kids these days.
@theinkedmommy, definitely sounds like Jax says shit at times but he may be saying sit or shut lmao, but thank you! My point exactly
Sorry, but he’s old enough to understand swearing now. 😂 Not the meaning, but he’s old enough to repeat it. My daughter can say “shit” and I’m not proud of it 🤣
@babyjjsmommy, lmao me and him fall out like every other day!!! Especially with his attitude because I do not play about my bby!
@poohpooh45, they’d be so much better off if theyd just keep that mouth closed sometimes 😅
@poohpooh45, he literally sucks at taking anything serious and it drives me crazy. Bc then I’ll come back into the room and he’ll have changed the channel. It’s like, why try to make me feel like an idiot for not wanting my son to watch certain shit? Why not just say yeah that’s fine, and we turn on some cartoons while he goes to sleep. They make things a million times harder and more irritating bc they always want to argue 😒
He sounds ridiculous I’m the same way I want my son to not hear or see bad things I want him to be a good person and not be anything like me or be around anything bad!!
Also what I’m worried about, I had gotten so bad about it and I’m really trying my hardest to stop in general but it’s hard af 😩
@owenjacesmama, that’s what I’m saying lol
Um im in the military so i havr horrible potty mouth & say fuck a lot... Now my 16 month old says it. Just because they dont understand what it means doesnt mean they won't say it
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I agree with you on both. I have a potty mouth and I'm working on it. It's really not good for them to be hearing those words and he can still get scared from those movies.