Ya’ll... I really don’t understand. There’s this “friend” I have... we were pretty close throughout my whole pregnancy…

@1bow3ties, no she doesn’t.

@keeping_upwith_harperkate So ironic that I just had to make this decision myself. I had to cut ties with the only friendship I had in the state of Florida. I noticed for awhile now that I seem to value the friendship with her a lot more than she did with me. I'm pregnant, she wanted me to meet her and some friends for her birthday and.i was all for it. I have to plan because I'm a mom. She knows this, doesn't tell me secured plans until hours before I'm supposed to meet them. I drive over an hour to meet them we have dinner for an hour, I gave her the gift I bought her, (I tend to be a great/thoughtful gift giver), she opens it, says, "it's too much," and puts it away. Doesn't show the other girls or anything. I was just like, okay...then we were supposed to go dancing/low-key bar setting. I looked forward to that because it had been a couple years for me and even being pregnant, I planned to have a good time. Well we drive to the bar, she sits in the car with the other two girls for like a good 5 mins, it starts to sprinkle and she comes over and says, we are just going to call it a night. I couldn't believe it. What made it worse, she mentioned how she was going out of town the following week, which happened to be the week of my wedding and she was going to come. I know it was her bday but I just felt like I didn't matter and they just brushed me off, after right had to secure a babysitter and drove all that way. I took advantage of the moment and reminded her of my wedding...she just kept saying what an asshole she was...and I said yep, got in my car and left. She's the friend that has the 50+ bridesmaid gowns and is so attentive to all of her friends. I thought I'd be nice, give her a break and have her just be a guest at mine...I didn't have a bridal party...very intimate. Well, after that and my feelings being so hurt, I didn't say anything to her. She called a couple times a week after she returned from the trip and then texted if I was mad at her. I told her I wasn't mad. That experience just made me so over the fake friendships near and far. I deleted my Facebook, deleted/blocked her from Snapchat, changed my number completely disconnecting from all the other "friends," too and have devoted my attention on my kiddos, family and husband. I didn't even feel like expressing to her how she hurt me. She just showed me the difference and enough was enough. Hope my experience helps you make yours!

@lana2018 She completely "forgot," it and planned a trip. It was just the tip of the iceberg at that point.

@lana2018 Right! I was so hurt by her negligence. I mean, her entire year has been filled with being others bridesmaids and moh in others weddings...I thought her just being able to come to mine and relax is what she would want. Her whole attitude about it and how she had treated me up until then had finally ended our friendship. Wow, your friends are seriously clueless. I'm sorry Hun!

@lana2018 absolutely! I've had so much peace in my life, it's wonderful. :)

I have had to deal with the same.