You ever just read some of these posts on here and the only thing that comes to mind for advice is GROW UP!! you have kids to worry about and you're all boohoo over a man who CLEARLY has made his own decisions to be an asshole. I feel bad don't get me wrong because I don't feel a woman who is so vulnerable should be treated like shes disposable BUT after the 200th post of the same nonsense its time to buck up and do what needs to be done not only for the unborn but the children that you already have. They dont need to deal with such stress. I know moms have a ton of weight on them but its our job to be strong even when we dont want to for the humans we are responsible for. I know ill catch flack for this post and frankly I dont care. We are all giant balls of emotion on this site. To allow a man to bring you down so low is unacceptable. Fake it till you make it if thats what it takes but stop sitting on a phone whining about things you have no control over and do what needs to be done for YOU and YOUR children!!!!