Thoughts about a woman proposing to a man? My friend just told me she wants to propose to her now…
Thoughts about a woman proposing to a man? My friend just told me she wants to propose to her now boyfriend who they have a son with. They been together about 2 years, she's told me several time how she doesn't see him being intrested in marrying her. I've known her bf since we were kids and before he was with her he was in a relationship for 6 years and didn't propose, I know every relationship is different and I should be supportive and I am. my now friend is going to propose to him September and I can't help but worry she might not get the outcome she's looking for.. I love this girl, she's been nothing but amazing to me and my little family. Should I say something or just be supportive??
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
I would just be supportive. People are on their own journeys in life and have to make all the mistakes to stay on the right path. But hopefully it goes well.
c. g·
I think you should say something but at the same time every relationship is different . Just ask her about it and see what she says . Do u know if she really thought this through and just because you say what you think doesn't mean your not supportive . You want her to be happy no matter what. Being a good friend doesn't always mean that you will always agree .
Eryka·
I would just be supportive, because you don’t wanna ruin a friendship over something that may or may not happen. Maybe mention to her maybe he isn’t proposing because he’s not ready yet or maybe he hasn’t found the right moment and she shouldn’t take it from him.
Courtney Logan ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
I think you should just give your honest opinion if she’s really your good friend then she’ll understand your concerns! but also just be supportive! If she still wants to do it then that’s when you have to say “Okay I’ve said my piece” & just be there to support her🤷🏽♀️
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kambam and your right thanks for the advice
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mami1234 I want too day something but I'm worried she might think I'm being a bad friend for not being supportive. I don't know their relationship but as far as what she's told me it just seems marriage is not something he wants now. It's something she wants more then him and I feel if she pushes him he's you to feel forced to say yes. She has it planned out, she's you to due a flash mob on September 21st
c. g·
@lezlie527 oh I see then you should let it happen . And of course be there if things go wrong . It's not your fault if things do go wrong . But hopefully things will go right .
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@eryka616 we were talking about goals for the new year and she's made that one of hers. It's going to happen when she says she's going to do something she does it. All I said it's not traditional but love the idea of a flash mob, she said I'm not a traditional kid of girl