How is he going to let me start my birthing last night, wait it out all night in horrible pin until…

How is he going to let me start my birthing last night, wait it out all night in horrible pin until ablut 12:30 this afternoon when I got to the hospital and they told me i was 5.5, had her at 2:25. Then him come at 6, and pass out on the couch.. i need sleep so bad.