I say to relax and labor at home as long as possible. Stress can stall labor, so only have those who bring you calmness, in your birthing suite. I didn't make birth plans with either pregnancy because I know anything can happen. I just go in with an open mind. Know all of your pain management options.

Go in w no expectations!!! When you set your mind on how you want it to go... it goes opposite !! I planned to move around and use the birthing ball but due to high bp @ the last minute they didnt let me bc I was hooked up to a bp machine arghhh!!!