@babyveach, I'm so sorry for your losses.

I had to make the biggest deal with everything my first pregnancy because we didn't know I was high risk til 3rd trimester. I was on bed rest at 28 weeks. Her cord blood reversed at 33 weeks. In my gut I knew something was wrong and called that morning. Sure enough my intuition was right. If I didn't, my daughter may not be here.

Yesterday I had that same awful feeling but I had an appointment and ultrasound. Baby is measuring small. My bp is up. And I'm freaking out now but I'm further along and am grateful for this. I have a high risk ob this time vs a consult then being transferred to them when shit hit the fan at 33 weeks. My ob seems confident I'll make it to 39 weeks. I hope so. I was fine now I keep getting headaches but I'm over analyzing and overwhelmed. We have so much to do. Waited til the last minute. Last time never even was ready. The NICU stay is when we did everything

@gracelynnsmama both my pregnancies were high risk. The first one was because I was pregnant with twins (lost one twin son while I was pregnant and then lost my other son at almost 3 months of sids ) and this last one was because she messured small as well. Both were in the nicu babies. But this delivery both baby and I almost died so I am giving my body a little bit to recover before we try for another. Hopefully she is potty trained before we even talk about it. Lol but after I got off the depo it took me 3 years to conceive do probably not going with that one.

@rachokai I had morning sickness with both pregnancies for almost 20 weeks. And I couldn't take prenatal vitamins for this last pregnancy because they made me vomit immediately after taking them.

We totally risked it after my first. Because it took us 2years to conceive; I didn't go on bc. Got pregnant when Gracelynn was 5 months old. I'm excited that my kids will be close together in age. But we are definitely done after this (2 high risk pregnancies). My husband literally can't see me be sick anymore. Plus Gracelynn was a preemie and this one is now being monitored for growth and is measuring small🤷🏻‍♀️🤰

@babyveach, oh I hear you on the morning sickness, mine was reallly bad until like 16 weeks. But I still loved being pregnant so much and already hardcore miss it after only 8 weeks 😬 But yeah I agree on condoms being no bueno. Ovulation tests have been my bff as “birth control”

@rachokai lmao. I went and got them. But I can't wait to be back on birth control cause I truthfully don t like condoms but I also don't love being pregnant either. Like I wouldn't mind it so much if it was so stressful and I hate the morning sickness and the constant non stress tests. It's just not fun lol.

My husband suggested this but I wouldn’t let him go to buy condoms because if people we know saw him they’d think he’s cheating on me 😂😂