Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Due date How likely are you to actually give birth on your due date, especially with your first kid? I don't want him to come on his exact due date because I don't want him to share a birthday with a certain someone.
Tell me if I'm wrong... So we see my SO son on sats for 3 hours we live in wixom but we have to drive an hour to get him and take him to his moms that lives about a half hour away from where we pick him up to be there for an hour then turn around and drop him back off then drive an hour back home. But I have to stay home with the baby because I don't want him in the car seat that long. I wanna go I wanna see his son and I want both the baby's to get used to each other and have him get used to me because eventually we will get full custody of him. I'm upset about the situation because I will be careing for his son when he works so I want him to be conterable with me and I won't if I can never go. So I asked him nicely if we can work something else out so its easier for all of us and I don't get left out and the baby doesn't have to suffer in the car that long and all he says is I don't wanna loose the chance to get full custody of him but you need to think of the rest of your family also. You want to leave your son with me when I would kinda be a complete stranger to him. Ive been around him a few times and we all played but he needs to get to know me more.
Dani B·
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@hmpjcp20143, you’re doing what you feel is right. As long as he gets held and cuddled for just a couple hours a day and isn’t screaming all day. He’s perfectly fine not being held.
Heather Puhl·
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@db413 thank you
Heather Puhl·
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Thank you I was starting to feel like I was a horrible mother because she told me I was because I don't hold him enough. It is so hard doing everything on my own but I wouldn't change it for the world I love my son so much.
Dani B·
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Not at all!! Your child. Your rules. Give her a time limit. Tell her she can hold him for like 20 mins. But then he has to be on the floor to play for an hour or so. Tell her she can get on the floor and play with him too!