i think im ready to be single. im so so tired of this. im going to lose my mind.

U ok?

@larubia2723, not really :/

@lavender13 what's wrong?

@larubia2723, my bf has serious trust issues and insecurities. one minute he’s understanding n believes i wont hurt him. the next he’s accusing me of cheating n nothing i say can change his mind

U know what sucks about that some other bitch got him feeling like that and honestly he shouldnt take someone elses being on u u dont deserve that that shit aint cool u need to sit n talk to him cuz honestly if it dont change it gets tiring and u will get tired of it n prb leave or it just will b bad if u dont he needs to forget about his past n give u a chance to show him that ur not like that

@larubia2723, we have talked multiple times. this has been our relationship for 5months. hes good a week or 2 then he’s yelling at me n accusing me of things..just because he’s been cheated on n has cheated before. he so afraid of being hurt again or his karma catching up.

Than tell him ethier u start trusting me and leaving ur past in the past or it might not work out cuz a realationship that is like that usually dont last sorry to say

@larubia2723, i know. i’ve told him this times before. he claims trusting me will take time. which would be fine if he wasn’t attacking me n destroying me in the process.. and i cant leave him cause then he will assume im leaving him for someone else n that i’ve been cheating🙄im just over this

Yes u can leave him u cant spend the rest of ya life getting dragged and u know u not doing nothing and if he dont change u sure as hell can

@larubia2723, i’ve never been good at breaking up. i always wait til the other person leaves. i don’t wana be the one to pull the plug..but it hurts me either way. idk why im with him. he doesn’t live here. cant drive. hasn’t helped financially at all. i’ve been too turned off to really be attracted to him. idk

O na girl he gta gooo

@larubia2723, i just don’t like getting my hands dirty with confrontation n stuff. but he’s punched a hole n my wall last time he yelled at me..and idk my anxiety is so bad im nauseous right now. idk what im going to do or how.

@lavender13 he seems violent

@larubia2723, yea he has anger issues. i’ve gotten a noise complaint cause of him n since he punched the wall last month i’ve only had him over once. ..im not sure if being in a relationship with him is the worse or would it be worse to break up with him n deal with his anger from that. not sure which would be easier to handle with a newborn

No think about yourself and your babies u can do better and if u dont leave u might regret it in the long run

@larubia2723, that’s true. i don’t really want to replace him. i just don’t want the negativity and the being pulled down so much. id be happy with focusing on myself n my son. n coparenting

Than just what u might have to do hun . it starts off like this and mark my words it gets worst

Then they think is ok to put thier hands on the woman

@larubia2723, yeah sometimes i wish he had. that would’ve been my clean way out. easy way out. idk how im going to get past this but i know im not taking these issues into 2018 so.

I hope everything works out and u can see that u dont need that

@larubia2723, thank you. i really appreciate you talking to me.

Aww np hun im here if u want to talk at all anytime i know how it feels like when u feel stuck

@larubia2723, i hope things are going well for you 🌻

They r thanks a lot me n my fiance have issues regualr issues but we trust eachother and thsts important N he is my bestfriend

@larubia2723, both of those are very important. im glad things improved

Yes they r u right about that