Everyone thinks Frankie cry’s too much because he doesn’t want anyone else holding him, but that’s just the way he is. He’s shy, and he doesn’t see my siblings enough to be comfortable. My sister got mad at me because I took him away from her when he was freaking out. Apparently I’m supposed to just let him cry until he gets comfortable. Sorry if I don’t want to watch my baby cry lol
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@dizz_d, yea she needs to. I wish I could get to her as well
@starting_over39, hopefully she did. She just bought a car, so hopefully she comes here more because I don’t have a car to drive there atm
@julieaforseth, lol no you’re right. I relate to him because I wouldn’t talk to people until I was like 13 😂 she will just have to live with it, or come over more
That's not fair to him nor you.. She should have gotten a wake up call that hey I should visit more often smh
@alecandfrankiesmum, I have a sister who also likes to give her opinion on situations and how to deal with my son. It can be annoying just because they feel like that’s how it should be done they expect us to agree. You did the right thing you know your son best! I would feel the same way as him if I was forced to hug and snuggle with someone I don’t see often and I’m 31 lol if I’m way off base let me know haha but I totally relate
@brynsmommie, we did thank you! Same you you and yours!
Ya that’s really hard 😞 hope you guys have an awesome Christmas 🎄
@brynsmommie, I need those types of friends. Unfortunately my sister lives an hour away, so she misses out
One of my friends made a point to come over once a week (we also watched survivor together) and she gets to see him more often and now he will play with her and sit on her lap!!
@brynsmommie, yea I honestly don’t mind, he is who he is. It’s my family who are bothered. I guess cuz they don’t get to cuddle him 😂
The time will come when he’s ready....it’s just a stage! My friends all joke “he hates me” but I always say it’s like that with everyone! Yes I agree, the older kids love extra attention 😊
@brynsmommie, same my husband and mom are the only ones that he’s comfortable around. After a while today he let my brother hold him, but only if he can see that I’m near. He had a fit today because he realized he couldn’t get to me without going past my nephew. I was the exact same as a child, and I don’t see the point in forcing him to be ok with it. Alec is happy for all the extra attention anyway because he is the complete opposite 😂
My son is shy with everyone these days....nobody tries to hold him tho because he always comes around to them after an hour or so and usually a game of peek a boo makes him see they are a friend and then he will either go near them but not necessarily want to be held by them still. It’s only me and my husband and my mom and dad at this point who can hold him
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
@alecandfrankiesmum, totally 😂 and it’s her lose on gaining a great relationship with an amazing little boy if she doesn’t