Everyone thinks Frankie cry’s too much because he doesn’t want anyone else holding him, but that’s just the way he is.…

My son is shy with everyone these days....nobody tries to hold him tho because he always comes around to them after an hour or so and usually a game of peek a boo makes him see they are a friend and then he will either go near them but not necessarily want to be held by them still. It’s only me and my husband and my mom and dad at this point who can hold him

@brynsmommie, same my husband and mom are the only ones that he’s comfortable around. After a while today he let my brother hold him, but only if he can see that I’m near. He had a fit today because he realized he couldn’t get to me without going past my nephew. I was the exact same as a child, and I don’t see the point in forcing him to be ok with it. Alec is happy for all the extra attention anyway because he is the complete opposite 😂

The time will come when he’s ready....it’s just a stage! My friends all joke “he hates me” but I always say it’s like that with everyone! Yes I agree, the older kids love extra attention 😊

@brynsmommie, yea I honestly don’t mind, he is who he is. It’s my family who are bothered. I guess cuz they don’t get to cuddle him 😂

One of my friends made a point to come over once a week (we also watched survivor together) and she gets to see him more often and now he will play with her and sit on her lap!!

@brynsmommie, I need those types of friends. Unfortunately my sister lives an hour away, so she misses out

Ya that’s really hard 😞 hope you guys have an awesome Christmas 🎄

@brynsmommie, we did thank you! Same you you and yours!

@alecandfrankiesmum, I have a sister who also likes to give her opinion on situations and how to deal with my son. It can be annoying just because they feel like that’s how it should be done they expect us to agree. You did the right thing you know your son best! I would feel the same way as him if I was forced to hug and snuggle with someone I don’t see often and I’m 31 lol if I’m way off base let me know haha but I totally relate

That's not fair to him nor you.. She should have gotten a wake up call that hey I should visit more often smh

@julieaforseth, lol no you’re right. I relate to him because I wouldn’t talk to people until I was like 13 😂 she will just have to live with it, or come over more

@starting_over39, hopefully she did. She just bought a car, so hopefully she comes here more because I don’t have a car to drive there atm

Makes no sense tell her to come by often no ?

@dizz_d, yea she needs to. I wish I could get to her as well

@alecandfrankiesmum, totally 😂 and it’s her lose on gaining a great relationship with an amazing little boy if she doesn’t