Also am I wrong if I don't even tell him about anything anymore to do with appointments and such since he doesn't come to a single one and doesn't care anyways? I tried being nice and include him in everything even when everyone told me I didn't need to but now he's just showing that he doesn't care and would rather spend his time and care about himself and his new girlfriend.
i cant believe that Im going to be a single mommy... :/ he doesnt even care about his child.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
My son's behavior is driving my husband/his dad and I more towards separating I think...my husband comes home from work and cant even deal with being around him at all and he literally doesnt even want to be home so he goes to bed super early to escape...he is, I swear to Gid, the worst behaved child in the entire world - at least that I've ever seen. I really have no idea what to do. The mental health help world for children (and heck, even adults ) here in FL is slim to none and I can't seem to get the kind of help he needs...he has ODD and Bipolar type 2..He needs placement at a residential facility for at least a year to straighten him out! He's driving hia family apart with his behavior and he doesn't even care ....
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Not wrong at all! 🙅🏻 My boyfriend didn't come to 3 of my appointments and since he didn't go, I didn't tell him how it went. It pissed him off cause I wouldn't tell him how the babies growing and if she's right on track, then he ended up going to every single one of them lol
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I'm sorry for your situation, he's an ass. I wouldn't tell him shit
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@scx327 aww I'm sorry that happened but I'm glad he is now! I'm not even with my baby's father anymore and the more I find out the more I don't even want to ask him to come to anything because why would I waste my time when he hasn't even proved anything and hasn't shown up to any appt even when we were together
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@scx327 and thank you I don't even want to I had to delete him off or everything the other day cause he posted something with his girlfriend every other hour and I didn't want to see it I'm all set have fun with her while I'll be taking care of the baby I'm just hoping things turn around and he's around and a solid father to his baby when he/she is here
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@maurissaerhardt, yeah exactly, he's showing more interest in his new gf than his own baby. I personally wouldn't tell him how it's going or even the gender of the baby when you find out. I'm sorry he's not more involved, i really hope he does change and wants to be apart of your appointments and even after when the baby is born
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@maurissaerhardt, ugh yeah I'd delete him too, I'm really sorry you're going through this cause I feel like no women should go through this alone. It's a beautiful part and he'll regret it sooner or later
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@scx327 thank you I hope so too! And he's also on my phone plan which I regret now I mean he has been paying his half when we we're together then he texted me last night on how he can pay his half for this month it's due tomorrow and I told him but then he hasn't even paid it yet so idk what's going on I'm thinking of telling him it's time that he gets his own plan or something because he just bought his own place like two weeks ago so if he can afford that (ironic he couldn't afford it when we were together though and we never went out or anything but can magically afford it while being with someone else).. then he can afford his own phone bill
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@scx327 exactly thank you so much
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Urgh same 😓
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@mothermother I'm sorry hun :(